For close friends of our beloved Andy, let’s help take care of him while he gets through this horrible ordeal. This is a place to help make sure he’s getting food, his day to day needs and comfort as best as we can offer him while he grieves. Please help me take care of our guy 💜 It’s also essential we raise money to help him move across the country now that he has lost his only child so he can be near his family and friends who love him and can help support him during the next phases.

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With your favorite restaurants at your fingertips, DoorDash satisfies your cravings and connects you with possibilities -- more time and energy for yourself and those you love.
Why We Love This Gift: In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo

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What is the best gift anytime? A Target eGift Card. With no fees and no expiration dates, the real question is: who couldn't use a gift card from Target?
Why We Love This Gift: Whether as a baby gift or to replenish supplies around the house, to cheer up a sick kid, or help someone with prescription costs, you can almost always find exactly what you need at Target. We love this gift because it enables your recipient with endless options and the ability to purchase precisely what they need - no questions asked.
What To Say In Your Card: I thought this might come in handy. I am sending you so much love!

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This e-gift card allows access to all Walmart products. Useful for anyone anywhere.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it offers access to things like pharmacies when a family you love is in need. Many aspects of surgical care are not covered by insurance - these expenses can add up. This is especially true when a family is on a fixed income. Items like canes, walkers, surgical gauze, and more - can all be underwritten in this way. (Bonus: It respects, as well, the privacy and dignity of the person you love). Supplements that are doctor recommended (always check) can also be covered in this manner. Walmart also just has everything so for someone who has lost their job it enables them to get what they need without spelling it all out. People are proud.
What To Express in Your Card: You'd do exactly the same. xo

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<a href="https://instacart.oloiyb.net/c/1246143/413183/7412" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instacart</a> is a grocery delivery service that delivers in as little as an hour. They connect you with Personal Shoppers in your area who pick up and deliver your groceries from your favorite local stores.
Why We Love This Gift: Shopping for groceries is a chore under the best of circumstances. For families facing a new lift event or crisis, it is very often incredibly stressful. The gift of a cupboard full of basic necessities is tremendous. It is a wonderful way to remind those you love that you have not forgotten the day-to-day challenges they face. You are telling them in no uncertain terms that they are not alone.
What to Express in Your Card: I was thinking about the things you have to get done every day. I hope you'll let me help a little by giving me a chance to buy you some groceries - and have them delivered to you. Just one lest task for you to worry about. I send you my love.

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Amazon gift cards never expire and they carry no fees. Redeemable towards millions of items at Amazon.com and also certain affiliated websites. Deliverable electronically and instantly.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it's appropriate for any situation. Let your recipient choose just what they need, when they need it... with ease, convenience, and endless options.
What To Express In Your Card: I'm sending you my love.

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Audible's Audiobook 3 Month Membership is a perfect gift to get your loved one hooked on their next favorite book. Audiobooks give you the capability of being able to listen wherever, whatever you are doing.
Gifting Audible's 3 Month Membership includes 1 monthly credit with member benefits for 3 months. By giving them the gift of a membership, your gift recipient will enjoy:
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<li>An unmatched selection of audiobooks performed by world-class talent</li>
<li>3 titles for each month of their gift membership: 1 audiobook + 2 Audible Originals</li>
<li>30% off any additional audiobooks</li>
<li>Anywhere, anytime listening with the free audible app</li>
<li>Free and easy audiobook exchanges</li>
<li>An audible book library they'll own forever</li>
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Why We Love This Gift: We all need an escape sometimes - to just close our eyes, and listen.
What To Express In Your Card: There are so many books out there that identify with what you are going through. I know how hard it has been for you. Give audiobooks a try, they can be very helpful. I love you.

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Audible&#8217;s Audiobook Membership is a perfect gift to get your loved one hooked on their next favorite book. Audiobooks give you the capability of being able to listen wherever, whatever you are doing.

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Domino's gift cards can be redeemed for pizza, sandwiches, desserts, and much more. Try their Artisan Pizza, Stuffed Cheesy Bread, Oven Baked Sandwiches, Parmesan Bread Bites, or Chocolate Lava Crunch Cakes. With the Domino's Pizza gift card, you can dine in the restaurant or order home-delivered pizza online. Treat someone to a Domino's gift card today.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because everyone loves sharing their favorite slice of pizza with someone they love. For example, those who have lost a loved one may sometimes permit themselves a little comfort and companionship. In such a circumstance, a meal shared is a true and lasting kindness. If the deceased was a breadwinner, the bereaved may be watching the wallet. Enable this person you love to grab a meal - wherever s/he is.
What To Express in Your Card: Please have something to eat.

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Written after his wife's tragic death as a way of surviving the "mad midnight moment," A Grief Observed is C.S. Lewis's honest reflection on the fundamental issues of life, death, and faith in the midst of loss. This work contains his concise, genuine reflections on that period: "Nothing will shake a man -- or at any rate a man like me -- out of his merely verbal thinking and his merely notional beliefs. He has to be knocked silly before he comes to his senses. Only torture will bring out the truth. Only under torture does he discover it himself." This is a beautiful and unflinchingly honest record of how even a stalwart believer can lose all sense of meaning in the universe, and how he can gradually regain his bearings.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it is an honest exploration of grief written from the perspective of a preeminent male writer. It explores and conveys universal truths about what it means to live, to love, to mourn. (Patton Oswalt recently described this book as helpful to him following the sudden death of his wife earlier in 2016).
What To Express In Your Card: I am heartbroken for you. I am thinking of you constantly and I am sending you all the support I can offer. Ask me anything.

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One card, millions of ways to enjoy it. Use the App Store &amp; iTunes Gift Card to get apps, games, music, movies and TV shows. Available in a variety of denominations - spend it on in-app content, books, TV show subscriptions or even iCloud storage to secure files from all your Apple devices.
Why We Love This Gift: This is a great gift for anyone. Teenagers love it as much as kids do. The versatility is tremendous. One mom told our editors that during her daughter's pediatric cancer treatment, the option to use screens enabled her to communicate with doctors without alarming her child. As much as parents would prefer kids don't spend too much time on a screen it is sometimes necessary. (And you can store files, listen to music, and and ....)
What To say In Your Card: I wasn't sure what you needed, but music (or other distractions) sometimes help. I thought you might be able to keep this in your back pocket. Thinking of you.

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With unrivaled in-store experience and passionate commitment to making gear easy-to-buy, Guitar Center is all about enabling musicians and non-musicians alike to experience the almost indescribable joy that comes from playing an instrument.
Shop Guitars, Bass, Drums, Amps, DJ Gear, Keyboards, Pro-Audio, and more, at the world's largest musical instrument retailer.
Guitar Center also provides customers with various musician-based services, including Guitar Center Lessons, where musicians of all ages and skill levels can learn to play a variety of instruments in many music genres.
Why We Love This Gift: Learning to play an instrument is an artistic outlet for channeling grief. Gifts like this help loved ones coping with loss or grief channel their emotions into positive and soothing coping skills.
What To Express In Your Card: I cannot imaging the hardship your family has had to endure. I am sending this to you in the hopes that music may provide a creative channel for your grief.

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With unrivaled in-store experience and passionate commitment to making gear easy-to-buy, Guitar Center is all about enabling musicians and non-musicians alike to experience the almost indescribable joy that comes from playing an instrument.

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What's on Spotify?
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<li>Music: There are millions of songs on Spotify. Play your favorites, discover new tracks, and build the perfect collection.</li>
<li>Playlists: You'll find readymade playlists to match your mood, put together by music fans and experts.</li>
<li>New Releases: Hear this week's latest singles and albums, and check out what's hot in the Top 50.</li>
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People with Spotify eGift Cards can access all its digital content using computers, tablets, smartphones, and home entertainment systems.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because music provides a cathartic release from situations that stress and challenge those we love. A really excellent playlist allows people a necessary cry in the car - or just the chance to reflect. Similarly, an inspirational playlist can encourage positive lifestyle choices - walking, running, more. Know someone who needs someone to take their mind off of things? This is a great gift for a friend or loved one who needs a little musical pick me up.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you - and sending you lots of love.

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Everyone deserves the gift of self-care. Give the nourishing gift of self-care with Joy Organic's Self-Care Bundle, created to take care of the ones you love and includes:
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Joy Organics ensures to extract any trace amounts of THC from every product. Joy Organics has a reliable third-party lab to test and ensure no detectable THC levels are in any products included in the Self-Care Bundle. 
Use coupon code 'inkind' to get 20% off your order! 
Why We Love This Gift: At Give InKind, we believe that natural support is better support. Plus, who couldn't use a loving reminder to engage in a much-needed self-care ritual? 
What To Express In Your Card: I want you to take some time to yourself and relax - hope this helps! I love you.

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"Thirty years ago my older brother, who was ten years old at the time, was trying to get a report on birds written that he'd had three months to write. It was due the next day. We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books on birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead. Then my father sat down beside him, put his arm around my  brother's shoulder, and said, 'Bird by bird, buddy.  Just take it bird by bird.'"
Think you've got a book inside of you? Anne Lamott isn't afraid to help you let it out. She'll help you find your passion and your voice. Readers will be seduced by Lamott's witty take on the reality of a writer's life, which has little to do with literary parties and a lot to do with jealousy, writer's block, and going for broke with each paragraph. Marvelously wise and best of all, great reading.
Why We Love This Book: We love this book because it is a fun, human, and engaging invitation to try writing for the fun (sort of) and the exploration (certainly) of it. It is a great way to get started writing and a lovely read.
What To Express In Your Card: I bet you write so beautifully. You are so eloquent in your description of things. There is so much happening in your life right now, and I wonder if you have permitted yourself the opportunity to sit down and record some of it. I am sorry for any pain you are in, but I'd love to lend a listening ear if you are comfortable sharing some of what you are thinking. I am sending you love.

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The beautiful practicality of her teaching has made Pema Chödrön one of the most beloved of contemporary American spiritual authors among Buddhists and non-Buddhists alike. A collection of talks she gave between 1987 and 1994, the book is a treasury of wisdom for going on living when we are overcome by pain and difficulties.
Much like Zen, Chödrön's interpretation of Tibetan Buddhism takes the form of a non-theistic spiritualism. In When Things Fall Apart, this head of a Tibetan monastery in Canada outlines some relevant and deceptively profound terms of Tibetan Buddhism that are germane to modern issues.
By letting go, we free ourselves to face fear and obstacles and offer ourselves unflinchingly to others. The graceful, conversational tone of Chödrön's writing gives the impression of sitting on a pillow across from her, listening to her everyday examples of Buddhist wisdom.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because we have discovered that in times of crisis, we are sometimes open to concepts we would have struggled to embrace prior to crisis. This book beautifully expresses that finding truth and beauty within the darkest times is possible. (Even if we'd give it all back to return to the pace where our lost loved one is, or the place we were happy). Making sense of struggle and loss is a universal struggle. This book reminds us of this, showing us we are not alone.
What To Express in Your Card: I struggled to find something that would help you. Something that would match the level of pain you are in and then salve it. Of course I couldn't do that, but I hoped that Chödrön could succeed where I know I will fail. Please accept this book along with my love.

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Instead of flowers, consider sending your grieving loved one meaningful support that lasts all year long.
Grief Coach will deliver grief support via SMS, personalized based on age, cause of death, and relationship. Best of all, if your grieving loved one has friends and family who want to help, they can receive tips and reminders too.
Go to <a href="https://grief.coach/giveinkind/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">grief.coach</a> and use the code giveinkind to get $10 off a gift subscription. Because grief is hard, but it's a little easier when we have people by our side.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it's for grieving people and amazing friends and family who want to support them. Plus, it lasts all year long - which matters a lot.
What To Say In Your Card: I'm going to stay by your side this year, through all of your ups &amp; downs. This subscription will help me to understand some of what you're going through so that I can give you the support you need. You can receive messages too, if you like, just let me know.

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For new parents, learning to navigate the world with a baby can be overwhelming. So give them back a hand - this time in gift card form.

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The first few months after the birth of a new baby offers many opportunities for a caring community to deliver support with the help of a gift card train.

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Setting up a food train is one of the best ways to help support someone you love. Here are some tips on how to give groceries as a gift.

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