Please help me care for my family while in hospital.

I have been in hospital for over 2 weeks now, had surgery Tuesday night which has left me with an ostomy bag and a new thought process about my life, was in Kennestone a week and half before that, and 2 weeks time before that and sick for over 2 months all together .Im very sick y'all , more than what we thought.. Now I am having to relearn my way of life and see what that holds for me now. As we all know I am the lead domestic technician at the house lol. Between cooking, cleaning, running errands, keeping everything on track and keeping the guys having lunches packed for work and clothes washed etc and dinner made... It's a lot for them to keep moving when they are lost and worried about me. Which I keep telling them that them not caring for themselves stresses me out ugh! Its my job to love on them and take care of them and I havent been able to keep up that side as of lately. Luckily they have been trained to use the appliances but not so good about the actual procurement from store on items to eat etc (wal.mart anxiety is real yall lmao) - I hate even asking but I know when I need to ask for help.