This is a text string of my special friends. As an overall update, my ex-husband, close friend for 19 years and my son Patton's dad passed away unexpectedly Saturday night at 64. Patton is 17 and a junior in high school. We lived 2 miles from each other and Patton would spend every weekend there. This is life altering for our family. Paul Cohagan had a heart condition that made his heart very weak and it simply gave out. Paul had two sisters, one in Orlando and one in Missouri. They will both be arriving to my home to stay the week on Tuesday evening. My son Lance is coming from Missouri for the weekend. My sister Jerri is being a big support and so is my son Dale. Jeff and I are representing for Patton and helping the family negotiate arrangements. Patton is his only heir, meaning we (essentially Jeff and I) will need to resolve his household in the coming months. I would expect at this very early time for a memorial (and show of support for Patton) to be 2 to 3 weeks away.