I moved in with my grandmother, about a year and a half ago, as she needed fairly constant care. I became her caregiver (cooking, cleaning, shopping, driving her to appointments or just to get her out of the house, etc) and was paid weekly. Shortly after I had moved in to look after her (about 9 months), my grandmom was admitted to the hospital. While she was in the hospital, she took a nasty fall and cracked her skull. Her condition began to rapidly decline, at first, due to her brain swelling. As the swelling reduced, she showed signs of improvement. At this point, the goal was to rehabilitate her and bring her home. Unfortunately, she had passed away 4 months later and never made it back home. My mother was appointed as trustee of my grandmother's trust/estate and asked that I remain at the estate, to help clean it out and prepare it for sale because from her house to my grandmoms is a 10+ hour round trip. Also, she had been having some health issues and was going to doctors appointments to pinpoint the issue. One evening she wasn't feeling right and asked my father to take her to urgent care. They diagnosed her with Cancer immediately (which was completely unexpected and devastating). From urgent care, she was taken, by ambulance , right to a hospital in New York, for immediate/aggressive treatments. Her body rejected the treatments and the cancer spread rapidly, causing: strokes, heart attacks and blindness. My mom was gone within weeks of her diagnosis. As a result of my mother's death, the role of trustee has been passed to my uncle.For reference,he and my mother did not get along. Upon becoming trustee, my uncle wasted no time letting me know I was to leave my Grandmoms house and left me with a 30 day notice to quit. I let him know that was not enough time and that I was going to need another week. His behavior towards me has been cruel and hurtful. Before the 30 days had even approached, him and his girlfriend were showing up to the house (almost daily). After letting themselves inside they would follow me around the house while he would (according to him) be recording me with his phone as he insulted me, yelled and made outlandish accusations. Help with groceries at this time would be such a blessing while I work to get back on my feet.
Mushroom and seafood allergies.