I’m BRA2 positive and HER negative, which is my DNA. Knowing this, along with my family’s cancer history, led me to ask for an MRI instead of a regular mammogram in 2025. That’s when my doctor called me one evening. As soon as I saw my phone, I knew what it meant. And, being me, I apologized to my doctor for having to call me and giving me what can only be the worst news to hear. Poor guy sounded so defeated. I just felt numb. Breathe. Tell Jim. How do I tell Jim? Fuck, how do I do this to Tanner? He lost his other dad. I cannot do this to either Jim or Tanner. Which means I now have to beat this. So that is where I am. On my journey to beat this. I was able to join UCLA and feel blessed by God. The doctors have been amazing and caring. And now I am on the road. First surgery done in January. The lump and 4 lymph nodes were removed. More tests, onward and upward. Afterward Chemotherapy was suggested for me. It’s 3 months long, with the last treatment scheduled for April 30, 2026. Is there pain? Oh yes. And a lot more after I receive a shot the next day to help strengthen my bones. Once I am passed chemotherapy, I can move onto what would be called an “ upper and lower” set of separate surgeries. The prayer is that I do reach a 96% chance of being cancer free. So thank you for reading this. And if you find an opportunity to help out with a meal or a walk or visit, even better. “Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise.” Jeremiah 17:14 NIV
No raw carrots No pine nuts Light salt please. Jim loves pasta! And he loves spice. Carina loves a little spice. 🥵 Neither one of us like greasy food. I started to cook lean 15 + years ago and our insides like it!🥰