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Hysterectomy Support for MF

Cloverdale, CA

Story

After suffering with endometriosis for 10+ years I was formally diagnosed with it last September via an abdominal laparoscopy with an endometriosis specialist. For those that do not know, endometriosis is an incurable chronic, progressive condition that has the potential to affect the entire body. There is very little research and doctors are very undereducated. Unfortunately, unlike some people who find relief after having their endo removed, I had no change in my symptoms after my laparoscopy. I tried taking hormonal treatment for 10 months, but the side effects of the hormones rivaled the misery of the endo itself. Essentially I have received the gold standard of endo care (excision with a specialist and hormonal treatment) but no change. I tried to heal holistically for 5 years under the care of multiple Ayurvedic practitioners and women's health specialists (who all told me I did not have endo). Herbs, baths, oils, steams, acupuncture, massage, lymphatic work, uterus repositioning, tinctures, diets, exercise-I've tried many things. I also have worked on emotional wellness in therapy for many years, and have even had big breakthroughs. Now that I have exhausted most every treatment for endo symptoms with no luck, I am making the decision to remove my uterus. Since my symptoms are only during my period, the specialist thinks that I will likely get a lot of relief from the procedure. Just the thought of never having a period again brings me to (happy) tears. My life has been dictated by my period for a long time. Cancelling plans, calling out of work and losing jobs, letting people down being just the tip of the iceberg. The days of unbearable pain I endure every 3 weeks has worn me down and I simply cannot keep living like this. I scheduled my full hysterectomy for Sept 4th, 2025. I decided that while still on MediCal and having access to the endo surgeon, that now is the time. I have a loving and supportive partner who will help me, but I am calling upon my village to help out in ways that they can to help with my recovery. I have to take a month off from work, and will be pretty out of it for at least a week or so. I am looking for help with meals for Morgan and I and maybe a few walks around the block for Margo, our dog. Morgan works a stressful full time job, and will be really thankful for any support. It is still almost bewildering to me that I have so many incredible people in my life that I feel I can call on for help during times like these. I am overflowing with gratitude and amazement at the community around me. We are stronger together. Thank you so much for reading and for everything. Every kind wish, meal, and positive thought is deeply appreciated.


Special Notes

Navigate the calendar below to September and you will see the dates that we are accepting dinners :) We will gladly accept a drop off anytime between 10am-7pm. We don't eat red meat, but chicken, turkey, fish is good. Vegetarian meals are great. I like everything except for eggplant, artichokes, or stuff with lots of mushrooms. -My Venmo is @Mary-Frances-White

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