Diane has lost both of her sons, her only children. I cannot imagine her pain. No mother should ever have to experience what she is going through and she deserves as much love and support as possible. The family asked that a food train be set up. I selected no flowers, no visitors, no phone calls, etc, ONLY because I wasn't sure of her wants and needs and I didn't want to be insensitive and ask a bunch of questions. Please do not assume that she doesn't want these things. Please check in with her or the family and when it seems right, someone will give an update.