On April 4th Michael McLeran passed away suddenly and unexpectedly, leaving behind a deep void in the lives of everyone who knew and loved him. Michael was not only a devoted husband to Alex, but a loving father to two young daughters, Luci and Lili. This unimaginable loss has left Alex heartbroken and overwhelmed as she begins to navigate life as a single parent while processing this profound grief. In the midst of this emotional storm, we want to create space for her to simply be with her girls—without the burden of daily logistics and responsibilities.

This page is being set up to support Alex in any way possible—from providing meals, to helping with household needs, errands, and anything else that may arise. By lightening the load of daily life, we hope to give Alex the time and space to grieve, heal, and care for Luci and Lili during this incredibly difficult time.

Thank you for your kindness, generosity, and support.

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The Sprite Snuggler's interactive story helps them understand that those who are no longer by our side continue to live within our hearts.
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