I haven't seen my dad in almost 20 years. I didn't even realize it's been that long until now. Our relationship hasn't been the best, but him having a stroke slapped me into reality. This could've been it. Could've been the end. I would never be able to see him again. He's only 58 years old. I need to get there to see him. I've been married 10 years and he's never met my spouse. Things need to change and they need to change fast. I want to try and get there next month, which is both of our birthdays. We are a paycheck to paycheck household. So even if I waited I'll never get the money together. I'm hoping to fly as it's faster, safer, and no more wear and tear on my car. I found a bundle deal for flights, hotel, and car rental for $970. I desperately want and NEED to get to Oklahoma to see my family. Please if you can help I'll be grateful beyond words. Too late is just not an option for me.