My name is Buffy Spencer and I am starting this fundraiser for myself, as I am in need of safe and secure living accommodations for the months of July into early August. My homelessness situation began in August 2024, due to an eviction arranged by a man whom I thought God had brought into my life to marry. I am obedient to the Lord, to the best of my knowledge, efforts, and understanding. I followed His instructions to trust this man, Jeffrey Alan Deleshaw, and it has resulted in ongoing homelessness, including my current situation of having to live totally in my car, without air conditioning, which he turned off. This man is wealthy and has not come to me to try to make the situation right; no request for forgiveness, no offers of restitution, only deceptive and manipulating harassment/stalking tactics to try to achieve his desires of marriage between us. God has instructed me not to have any further dealings/associations with Mr. Deleshaw due to the ongoing abuse I suffer. I have no safe place to park because everywhere I go, Mr. Deleshaw finds a way to not only stay nearby to "watch" and observe me but also to bribe other people to harass me in whatever way he needs, without me being able to have proof in order to have him arrested. This is a very short description of my situation, which I may edit from time to time as my thought process begins to clear and if I feel moved by the good Lord to add to or edit this post. My donation request is to be able to have access to purchasing hotel accommodations for the remainder of the month of July into the first part of August. My daughter is making plans to move from her current apartment (where her lease will not allow me to stay with her) into a place that I will be able to live with her as I try to get back on my feet and into my own place eventually. As far as my finances, I am on total and permanent disability and my monthly income goes toward my car payment, insurance, and two storage units that I had to rent at the last minute because I truly believed that Mr. Deleshaw would not allow me to be locked out of my apartment, not knowing at the time that he was behind it all. His intentions were and still are to put and keep me in a position where I would have nothing and would have no other choice but to be with him. But God will not allow it. Mr. Deleshaw has kept me from being able to obtain employment as well as safe and stable housing. He has found a way to infiltrate his ideas within area shelters as well. He tells anyone he can about his happy ever after story, about how he has a house and money and that he's going to marry me and take care of me and of course it's convincing and easy to believe and then after he's been helped, those who help him realize that they are dealing with a narcissistic/delusional person. At that time it's hard to undo what's been done. There have been so many good people, God-honoring people who have tried to help Mr. Deleshaw and in this situation but to no avail. I'm now looking for another safe place to park my car to live in, despite the high heat temperatures, and Mr. Deleshaw still believes that we will be married and tries to find a way to derail safe accommodations for myself. Safe accommodations would include no opportunity for surveillance as well. He has accessed security cameras as well as bribing an individual to place monitoring devices in my apartment just before I was evicted. Although I have not seen a diagnosis, Mr. Deleshaw's actions clearly are obsessive in nature and I could not think of any other way to get help but to go public and tell my story and pray that someone will help without being bribed or influenced by Jeff Deleshaw and helping him continue to have me essentially "trapped" in his fantasy world. Please take my request seriously even though it's not worded and well written like I would have liked but I felt God nudging me to just get it done. Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Thank you, Jesus Proverbs 19:17 Matthew 25:35-36