Meal Train &amp; Support for Dahlia’s Grieving Family

Dear Family, Friends, and Community,

With heavy hearts, we share the tragic news that on Wednesday, June 4th, our hearts were shattered by the sudden and tragic drowning of 3-year-old Dahlia. Dahlia was a bright light—joyful, curious, and full of love. Her passing has left a profound emptiness in the lives of those who cherished her most.

This unimaginable loss has impacted not only her grieving parents but also her five young siblings, devoted grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family, and friends. As this family navigates the overwhelming pain of loss, they are also facing financial and emotional challenges. Dahlia was deeply loved and brought joy to everyone around her.

As they face this heartbreaking time, we are organizing a Meal Train and collecting essential items to help care for the children and support the household in this season of grief.

💛 Here’s how you can help:
Assisting grandparents who have stepped into increased caregiving roles.

Covering funeral and memorial expenses

Helping stabilize the family as they grieve and begin the healing process

🍽 Meal Train
Help nourish the family with home-cooked meals or gift cards for takeout. Providing meals means the family can focus on healing and supporting one another through this deep loss.

🍼 Items Needed for the 2-Year-Old Baby Boy

Diapers (Size 6)

Wipes

Toddler clothes (Size 3T-4T)

Snacks

Toys, comfort blankets, or books

Gift cards (Walmart, Target, grocery stores)


🎒 Support for Dahlia’s Sisters
These sweet girls are grieving the loss of their baby sister. We welcome:

Gift cards (for clothes, school supplies, or small treats)

Journals, books, or comfort items

Notes or cards of encouragement

Clothing (sizes 14/16 and women's XS and girls 7/8 twins)
Shoes (sizes women's 8.5, 5-6, and girls 13-1)

Your support—whether through meals, donations, or simply sharing this message—means the world to a family trying to breathe through heartbreak. Every act of kindness is a light in this dark time.

With heartfelt thanks in advance.

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Tina Hollingsworth-Degn

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