On the morning of April 20th, the sun rose with the promise of a joyous occasion— a birthday. Inside a welcoming home, a nursery was freshly painted with soothing hues and stocked with lovingly chosen supplies from friends and family, all set to welcome a new life. This day was meant to be a celebration of new beginnings for Lauren, Ray, and their family due to a long anticipated baby girl. Yet, as the early hours unfolded, her story took a turn towards an unexpected sorrow. Grief replaced joy as the little heart that was to light up their lives… fluttered for the last time at 2:50 am. Lauren, Ray, their boys and family are navigating through a storm of emotions. Though her time was short, her presence will leave an unforgettable impression on their lives. 💗04-20-2024 2:50 𝐴𝑀 💖 𝐴𝑢𝑏𝑟𝑒𝑒 𝑀𝑎𝑐ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑙 𝑃𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑡𝑜 7𝑙𝑏𝑠 7𝑜𝑧 - 20 ½ 𝑖𝑛𝑐ℎ𝑒𝑠 Our hearts ache alongside Lauren as she grieves the loss of her baby girl. Aubree's arrival was filled with unexpected complications during delivery that took her precious life. Lauren is not only grappling with immense grief, but also physically recovering from a difficult delivery. The opportunities of Aubree’s life can now only be dreamt about, a reminder of how precious each moment is. With the cause of her unexpected passing still unknown, Lauren and Ray are seeking answers. In these times of sorrow, our acts of kindness—like preparing a meal or simply listening—can bring light to their darkest days. As Lauren grieves the future she imagined with Aubree, let's show her how much we care. All offers to help are welcomed such as with errands, watching the kids, or just being there to listen can be just as healing. No Momma should suffer this Heartache twice. Rest in Peace, Twin Baby Liam August 19, 2017 𝐏𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐮𝐩 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐥. 🌯🍔🌮🍕 Venmo @laurenmachell Meals: • Beef Tacos • Chicken Tacos • Burgers • Lasagna • Pulled Pork Sandwiches • Chicken Enchiladas with Green Sauce • Beef Enchiladas with Red Sauce • Chicken Alfredo • Beef Stroganoff with Mushrooms • Breakfast Sandwiches • Tri-Tip with Potatoes and Caesar Salad or Mixed Veggie Salad Restaurants: • Bloomingcamps: Chicken Pot Pie • Backwoods Burgers: • Sliders (No Pickles) • Smashburger (No Onions) • Mexicana • Jalapeno Turkey Melt (Add Pickles) • Regular Fries • Onion Rings • JC’s Cafe: • Patty Melt (Add Mushrooms and Grilled Onions) • Kids Chicken Strips and Fries • Crispy Chicken Sandwich with Fries (Side of Buffalo Sauce x2) • Mr. Pickles: • French Dip with Garlic Sauce and Extra Mayo on Dutch Crunch • Turkey and Cheddar on Sourdough (No Pepperoncinis, All Other Veggies) • Jarro Viejo: • Burrito (Asada, Rice, Cheese, Sour Cream) • Burrito (Grilled Chicken, Extra Rice, Refried Beans, Cheese, Sour Cream, Tomatillo Salsa) • 2 Crunchy Grilled Chicken Tacos • 4 Asada Street Tacos (Cilantro, Onion, Salsa) • Panda Express: • Plate (Fried Rice, Orange Chicken, Mushroom Chicken) • Plate (Fried Rice, Orange Chicken, Honey Walnut Shrimp) • Bowl (Rice, Orange Chicken x2) • Pearl Palace: • BBQ Pork Rice • Veggie Chow Mein • Hot Braised Chicken • Mongolian Beef • Lemon Chicken • House of Beef: Tri-Tip Dinner • In-N-Out: • Double-Double (Plain with Ketchup and Mustard, Animal Fries) • Double-Double (Animal Style, Fries) • Double-Double (Spread, Ketchup, Mustard, Pickle x2) • Ferresses: • Leo with Beef • Hot Turkey and Bacon (Add Pickles, Everything Else) • Chik-fil-A: • Chicken Sandwich (No Pickle, Chick-fil-A Sauce, Fries) • Spicy Deluxe with Fries x2 • Chicken Sandwich with Fries (Ranch, Buffalo BBQ, and Chick-fil-A Sauce) • Pizza: • Pepperoni and Mushroom • Canadian Bacon and Pineapple • Taco Bell: General Mention (No Specifics Listed) “𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝑖𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑔𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑣𝑒 𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑛𝑜𝑡 ‘𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟’ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑎 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑑 𝑜𝑛𝑒; 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑡. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑙 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑟𝑒𝑏𝑢𝑖𝑙𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑎𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑠𝑢𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑑.” - 𝐸𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑎𝑏𝑒𝑡ℎ 𝐾𝑢̈𝑏𝑙𝑒𝑟-𝑅𝑜𝑠𝑠 Reminders for supporting the family: 𝗗𝗼’𝘀 1. Do listen more than you speak. Sometimes, the best support you can offer is your presence and willingness to listen without judgment. 2. Do acknowledge the loss. Say the baby’s name if known, and recognize the significance of the loss. 3. Do offer specific help. Instead of saying “Let me know if you need anything,” offer specific forms of help, such as bringing meals, running errands, or watching other children. 4. Do check in regularly. Continued support is important, as grief doesn’t simply end after the funeral or a few weeks later. 5. Do continue to include them in your plans. Keep inviting them to events and gatherings, even if they decline. It’s important they know they are not forgotten and still part of the community. 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁𝘀 1. Don’t minimize their loss. Avoid phrases like “You can have another baby” or “At least you know you can get pregnant.” These comments can be very hurtful. 2. Don’t impose your beliefs. Avoid making statements about “God’s plan” or spiritual beliefs unless you know they share these views and find them comforting. 3. Don’t rush their grieving process. Understand that grief has no set timeline, and everyone processes loss at their own pace. 4. Don’t avoid them because you feel uncomfortable. It can be hard to know what to say, but simply showing up and being there is better than avoiding them. 5. Don’t forget significant dates. Birthdays, anniversaries of the loss, and other important dates can be particularly tough. Reach out to let them know you’re thinking of them.