Anyone that helps during the most difficult time for Anthony we thank you more than you can imagine. We appreciate anything after we both lost both our mothers. With in 8 months the thought is absolutely unbearable 💔.

We love you all so much.

I know Anthony is trying to stay strong but I know my husband's world is absolutely crumbling. But trying to stay stong with making the arrangements for his mother and keeping everyone in the knowing. 

As most that know us. Know Anthony just lost his mother. She had been battling cancer since November. This comes with a big heart ache and a devastating loss. Anthony has been working and been at the hospital caring for is his mother for almost 2 weeks..

I Have included things for Mozzie Mary's dog and Milago Anthony Hernandez dog.

And some things for us to do to get us out of the house. 

Currently he is not only planning his mother's funeral but as well reaching out to family about the loss and arrangements of her service. 

Anthony has always been a person of doing it all. But after the care and loss we ask this of you for taking one more thing off of Anthony so he can take of himself and be more present for things that are much more important than figuring out meals and grocey shopping. Having time to go get well as take some time to grieve his mother with the least amount of stress.

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Support for Anthony during the loss of his mother

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<a href="https://instacart.oloiyb.net/c/1246143/413183/7412" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instacart</a> is a grocery delivery service that delivers in as little as an hour. They connect you with Personal Shoppers in your area who pick up and deliver your groceries from your favorite local stores.
Why We Love This Gift: Shopping for groceries is a chore under the best of circumstances. For families facing a new lift event or crisis, it is very often incredibly stressful. The gift of a cupboard full of basic necessities is tremendous. It is a wonderful way to remind those you love that you have not forgotten the day-to-day challenges they face. You are telling them in no uncertain terms that they are not alone.
What to Express in Your Card: I was thinking about the things you have to get done every day. I hope you'll let me help a little by giving me a chance to buy you some groceries - and have them delivered to you. Just one lest task for you to worry about. I send you my love.

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What is the best gift anytime? A Target eGift Card. With no fees and no expiration dates, the real question is: who couldn't use a gift card from Target?
Why We Love This Gift: Whether as a baby gift or to replenish supplies around the house, to cheer up a sick kid, or help someone with prescription costs, you can almost always find exactly what you need at Target. We love this gift because it enables your recipient with endless options and the ability to purchase precisely what they need - no questions asked.
What To Say In Your Card: I thought this might come in handy. I am sending you so much love!

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With your favorite restaurants at your fingertips, DoorDash satisfies your cravings and connects you with possibilities -- more time and energy for yourself and those you love.
Why We Love This Gift: In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo

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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.
Through their vision of Food With Integrity, Chipotle is seeking better food from using ingredients that are not only fresh, but that - where possible - are sustainably grown and raised responsibly with respect for the animals, the land, and the farmers who produce the food. And...delicious too!
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because Chipotle offers a clean and affordable fast food alternative. This is a great gift for anyone - who doesn't love Chipotle?
What To Express In Your Card: I miss you! Grab a meal. Sending you love.

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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.

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Since 1971, Starbucks Coffee Company has been committed to ethically sourcing and roasting the highest quality arabica coffee in the world. Today, with stores around the globe, the company is the premier roaster and retailer of specialty coffee in the world.
Why We Love This Gift: Because it is coffee. We love this gift for that reason, but also because coffee (and tea) can facilitate conversation. People stop and talk over coffee and tea. Barista-made cups of coffee or steaming cups of hot tea are among life's "little" indulgences - the kind of thing that lifts people up. They are also among the first things people slash from tight budgets. Help them put it back. This gift is suitable for anyone to whom you want to express concern, consideration, or love. Also, here is a hot tip: teenagers love Starbucks. It is a great gift for a teenager.
What to Express in Your Card: I was just thinking about you as you grapple with recent events. I hope you will take a break and enjoy a cup of coffee - I know you are a latte fan. Maybe we can even meet for a cup? I'd love to know how you are doing and what I can do to be helpful. I send you lots of love.

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Since 1971, Starbucks Coffee Company has been committed to ethically sourcing and roasting the highest quality arabica coffee in the world. Today, with stores around the globe, the company is the premier roaster and retailer of specialty coffee in the world.

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The Krispy Kreme brand has several unique elements that have helped create a special bond with customers. Their doughnuts, which are made from a secret recipe that has been in the company since 1937, have a one-of-a-kind taste that generations of loyal customers have grown to love.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because everyone loves donuts, pretty much any time. Whether your recipient is a pregnant mother experience cravings or a stressed-out family with children - donuts send a message to sit down, relax, and enjoy a sweet moment.
What To Express In Your Card: I wanted you to take a moment for a little rest.

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The Krispy Kreme brand has several unique elements that have helped create a special bond with customers. Their doughnuts, which are made from a secret recipe that has been in the company since 1937, have a one-of-a-kind taste that generations of loyal customers have grown to love.

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Express sympathy in a genuine manner with thoughtful funeral flower arrangements. A kind, tasteful gesture to let them know you care.
If you're sending to someone with a Give InKind page, you might check first to see if they've indicated a preference for 'no flowers'.
We're helping farmers all over the world grow their business. Our Farm to Table Bouqs are cut the day you order and shipped from one of our farm partners so they last. All our farms practice sustainable, eco-friendly farming, and we cut only what we sell - so we don't waste 1 out of every 3 stems like others.
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Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because flowers in loss can be very comforting for the bereaved. The sustainable practices employed by this provider add an additional level of comfort to the recipient family.
What To Express in Your Card: We are so sorry for your loss. Our condolences to you and to your family.
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For more than 25 years Cold Stone has served up the finest, freshest ice cream, cakes, smoothies, and shakes using only the highest quality ingredients, and of course, the signature process of preparing custom ice cream creation on a frozen granite stone.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because there is just something about ice cream - more than any other dessert, really - that binds generations. Ask anyone if they remember eating ice cream with a grandparent and the answer is likely to be yes. We are betting that most people could even remember what kinds people had. (Chocolate and pistachio).
What To Express in Your Card: I wanted you to take a moment for a little rest.

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The digital Visa gift card is another convenient option for supporting someone when they need it most. It allows the recipient to select their own essentials or gifts from a wide range of merchants. The card will be emailed to your recipient’s inbox and is for online or by phone use only. It’s a thoughtful way to show your support and let them know you’re there for them.
Why we love this gift: 
With ever-changing needs, this gift allows your loved one to purchase whatever they need, whenever they need it. The digital Visa gift card is a fast, easy way to put funds in your recipient’s hands. This gift card is all about giving them that flexibility and peace of mind.

Looking for a memorable gift that adapts to any situation?
The physical Visa gift card combines the practicality of a Visa credit card—usable both in-store and online—and the thoughtfulness of a greeting card. For just $5.95 and the cost of your chosen shipping method, we will print your custom Give InKind Visa gift card and personalized greeting card, and send directly to your loved one. The versatility and personal touch of this gift makes it no surprise this is our most gifted card.
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<li>Personalization: Add a heartfelt message to both the gift card itself and the greeting card. Pick your favorite among the many available greeting card designs to give your gift a personal touch. And for those urgent moments, you can always choose to have your gift shipped overnight.</li>
<li>Show you care: It’s the perfect way of letting a recipient know you are thinking of them, no matter how far away they may be. Whether it’s sending love after the birth of a new baby, some healthy vibes with a Get Well card, or even a simple ‘Thinking of You’ your gift can truly make a difference for a friend going through some intense times.</li>
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The Give InKind Custom Visa card is the perfect way to show your support during challenging times, or anytime you want to show you care. Whether you're sending love after the birth of a new baby, or sending good vibes during a difficult period, the Give InKind Custom Visa card is the perfect way to show your support.
This card is available with an optional greeting card, so you can add a personal touch to your gesture. And for those urgent moments, you can always choose to have your card shipped overnight.
The Give InKind Custom Visa card is more than just a card. It's a way to make a difference in the lives of those you love, and give them the support they need. Show your support today with the Give InKind Custom Visa card.
Additional charges will apply at checkout depending on delivery preferences. There are no additional charges for any digital cards sent via email.

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CareCard by Give InKind is the personalized, versatile gift card that turns money into true support.
When a loved one is experiencing a life event--expected or not--our first instinct is to ask "How can I help?". Sometimes it can be the most impossible question to answer. 
When you send someone a CareCard, the recipient can turn it into a gift card of their choice* that will help support them in their unique situation. From food, to shopping, to home care gift cards, and more, the CareCard by Give InKind personalizes support on a whole new level.  
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Anyone who is the Recipient of an InKind Page can receive a CareCard! Send a virtual CareCard directly to their inbox and let someone know you're thinking about them today.
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A Reward Link is simply the easiest way to give the gift of choice. You&#8217;ll find dozens of premium gift cards, and with digital delivery you will receive the reward value instantly. You are a few simple clicks away from choosing the gift card you really want.

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Mix It Up&trade; brings seven fan-favorite dining brands together providing unrivaled dining and snack options, all on one convenient gift card. The Mix It Up card is redeemable at over 3,800 combined Auntie Anne's, Carvel, Cinnabon, Jamba, McAlister's Deli, Moe's Southwest Grill and Schlotzsky's locations across the U.S.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it gives people the flexibility of eating at so many different places. From healthy to indulgent and everything in between, this gift card gives you options.
What To Express In Your Card: I wanted you to take a moment for a little rest and eat something yummy.

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Mix It Up™ brings seven fan-favorite dining brands together providing unrivaled dining and snack options, all on one convenient gift card. The Mix It Up card is redeemable at over 3,800 combined Auntie Anne&#8217;s, Carvel, Cinnabon, Jamba, McAlister&#8217;s Deli, Moe&#8217;s Southwest Grill and Schlotzsky&#8217;s locations across the U.S.

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This e-gift card allows access to all Walmart products. Useful for anyone anywhere.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it offers access to things like pharmacies when a family you love is in need. Many aspects of surgical care are not covered by insurance - these expenses can add up. This is especially true when a family is on a fixed income. Items like canes, walkers, surgical gauze, and more - can all be underwritten in this way. (Bonus: It respects, as well, the privacy and dignity of the person you love). Supplements that are doctor recommended (always check) can also be covered in this manner. Walmart also just has everything so for someone who has lost their job it enables them to get what they need without spelling it all out. People are proud.
What To Express in Your Card: You'd do exactly the same. xo

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Sip into Dunkin' Donuts and enjoy America's favorite coffee and baked goods chain.
Why We Love This Gift: Whether your recipient is a pregnant mother experience cravings or a stressed-out family with children - donuts send a message to sit down, relax, and enjoy a sweet moment. We love this gift because everyone loves donuts, pretty much any time.
What To Express In Your Card: Please, treat yourself to coffee and donuts. You deserve it.

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Sip into Dunkin&#8217; Donuts and enjoy America&#8217;s favorite coffee and baked goods chain.

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With McCormick &amp; Schmick's Seafood Restaurants, you can count on fantastic food and excellent service.
Menus are created and printed each day after the early morning delivery of fresh seafood and shellfish from the Pacific, Atlantic, and Gulf of Mexico.
If you enjoy beef, pork, or poultry, the diverse selection of perfectly aged steaks, thick pork chops, and locally sourced fresh chicken will exceed your expectations. Each McCormick &amp; Schmick's is uniquely designed to create an inviting, original, and relaxed atmosphere, where guests can enjoy the highest quality dining experience.
Why We Love This Gift: We love good food and also the chance to relax afterward. No dishes, and you are done. For a burnt-out family - that's priceless.
What To Express In Your Card: I am thinking of you.

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With McCormick &amp; Schmick&#8217;s Seafood Restaurants, you can count on wonderful food and excellent service.

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Italian Generosity is always on the table.  At Olive Garden, we know that life is better together and everyone is happiest when they're with family. From never ending servings of our freshly baked breadsticks and iconic garden salad, to our homemade soups and sauces, there's something for everyone to enjoy.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking so much about you. Please take a few minutes to get something to eat and drink - on me.

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Petco is a leading pet specialty retailer carrying more than 10,000 different pet-related products. With more than 1,100 stores in all 50 states, Petco provides the products, services (grooming, boarding), and advice that make it easier for customers to be great pet parents.
Why We Love This Gift: Pets can be so expensive. But so too are they adored. Help a loved one in a pinch by providing necessary food or other pet-related items. This includes grooming and boarding services in many areas - a major help to those in need.
What To Express In Your Card: I know how you have relied on [name of pet] over the course of the last few years. What an ally. I hope this helps to pay for some of the stuff I know you like that sweetie to have. Thinking of you.

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Brinker International is one of the world's leading casual dining restaurant companies. With more than 1,600 restaurants and over 100,000 Team Members in 31 countries and two territories, they welcome more than one million Guests into Chili's and Maggiano's restaurants every day.
Why We Love This Gift: Brinker International is driven by integrity, teamwork, and passion - plus an unwavering commitment for every Guest to have an exceptional dining experience when visiting. For a family in need of a break at one of their favorite restaurants, this is the perfect gift.
What To Express In Your Card: Sending a gift I know you will love. Please, call me anytime.

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Brinker International is one of the world&#8217;s leading casual dining restaurant companies. With more than 1,600 restaurants and over 100,000 Team Members in 31 countries and two territories, they welcome more than one million Guests into Chili&#8217;s and Maggiano&#8217;s restaurants every day.

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Yard House is the modern American gathering place where beer and food lovers unite - known for its New American cuisine, classic rock music and an endless fleet of tap handles featuring the best American craft and import beers.
Why We Love This Gift: For a family or individual going through a difficult time, a meal shared is true and lasting kindness - and a gift appreciated beyond measure.
What To Express In Your Card: I am thinking so much about you. Please take a few minutes to get something to eat and drink - on me.

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Yard House is an upscale, casual eatery known for its extensive menu of contemporary American cuisine, classic rock music, and an endless fleet of tap handle featuring craft, import, and specialty ales &amp; lagers.

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The family-friendly restaurant is famous for hand-cut steaks, made-from-scratch sides, fresh-baked bread, and a lively atmosphere.
Based in Louisville, Kentucky, Texas Roadhouse opened its doors in 1993 and has more than 611 locations in 49 states and ten countries.
Newsweek recognized Texas Roadhouse as one of America's Best Customer Service restaurants in the Casual Dining category in 2019.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because there is something very satisfying - and delicious, too - about a big and juicy steak. What's not to love?
What To Express In Your Card: Enjoy a night out - you deserve it. Let's chat soon?

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The family-friendly restaurant is famous for hand-cut steaks, made-from-scratch sides, fresh-baked bread, and a lively atmosphere.

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Panera Bread is committed to providing great-tasting, quality food that people can trust.
Highlighted by antibiotic-free chicken, whole grain bread, select organic and all-natural ingredients, and a menu free of man-made trans-fat, Panera is committed to providing great tasting quality food people can trust.
With a wide variety of year-round favorites, their menu is complemented by new items introduced seasonally with the goal of creating new standards in everyday food choices. In neighborhoods across the country, guests are enjoying Panera's warm and welcoming environment featuring comfortable gathering areas, relaxing decor, and free Wi-Fi access.
Why We Love This Gift: We like convenient, comfortable, and quality chain restaurant food. You know who else might like it? Anyone who has reason to spend time with a sick relative in a hospital. Chain restaurants can provide a valuable change of scene and a little headspace.
What To Express In Your Card: Please stop for a minute and eat something. Let's catch up soon? I love and miss you.

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Panera Bread is committed to providing great-tasting, quality food that people can trust.

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The Darden&reg; Restaurants Gift Card provides 9 distinguished and diverse restaurants on one card.  From Olive Garden's never-ending servings of our freshly baked breadsticks and iconic garden fresh salad to fresh, boldly seasoned and expertly grilled steaks - like the signature bone-in Outlaw Ribeye&reg; at LongHorn Steakhouse, we have one card with all your favorites.    Darden&reg; Restaurants Gift Card can be redeemed at any Olive Garden&reg;, LongHorn Steakhouse&reg;, Yard House&reg;, Ruth's Chris&reg; Steak House, Cheddar's Scratch Kitchen&reg;, The Capital Grille, Seasons 52&reg;, Eddie V's and Bahama Breeze&reg; restaurants in the U.S.  Gift Cards can be redeemed for Online To Go, Catering and Dine-In meals.
What To Express In Your Card: I am thinking about you so much. Please, take a few minutes and get something to eat and drink on me.

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With over 1,500 restaurants in all 50 states, the Darden Gift Card is redeemable at some of the most recognizable brands in full-service dining including Olive Garden®, LongHorn Steakhouse®, Bahama Breeze®, Seasons 52®, Yard House®, and Cheddar&#8217;s® among others.

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The SONIC gift card is the perfect way to show your support for someone in their time of need. Whether it's a new baby, a health issue, or the loss of a loved one, a SONIC gift card can provide much-needed comfort and care.
At SONIC, you can find a variety of menu options to suit any taste. With over 3,500 SONIC locations across the country, you and your recipient can enjoy delicious burgers, hot dogs, tots, soft drinks, and much more. The SONIC gift card is also a great way to make sure that the recipient can enjoy a meal without having to worry about cost.
What's more, the SONIC gift card can be used to purchase a variety of goodies from the SONIC Drive-In, including shakes, ice cream, and SONIC Blast treats. The gift card is also good for use at SONIC's sister brand, Dunkin' Donuts, for coffee, doughnuts, and more.
When you give a SONIC gift card, you can rest assured that your recipient will be able to enjoy a nice meal or treat in their time of need. Whether they're having a baby, dealing with an illness, or mourning the loss of a loved one, a SONIC gift card gives them the chance to enjoy a special treat without having to worry about the cost.
Send a SONIC gift card today and show your support for someone in their time of need. With a variety of locations and menu items to choose from, you can be sure your gift will be appreciated and enjoyed.

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Topgolf offers an upscale and playful experience, featuring an impressive food and beverage menu, music, games, complimentary club rentals, and HDTVs. 
Players hit golf balls containing computer microchips that track each shot's accuracy and distance while awarding points for hitting targets on the outfield. 
You can challenge your friends and family to several different point-scoring golf games that anyone - from beginner to the golf pro - can play. Plus, with climate-controlled hitting bays, Topgolf can be enjoyed in all seasons.
Why We Love This Gift: At Topgolf, there's no pressure to have a good golf swing or score a lot of points. It's all about everyone having fun. This gift card is a perfect opportunity for a family to change up the scenery for a night of togetherness.
What To Express In Your Card: I cannot imagine how difficult it has been for you and your family. I hope a night of games, laughing, and delicious food is exactly the break you need. I love you!

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Topgolf offers an upscale and playful experience, featuring an impressive food and beverage menu, music, games, complimentary club rentals, and HDTVs.

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Setting up a food train is one of the best ways to help support someone you love. Here are some tips on how to give groceries as a gift.

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New York Times Best-selling author David Shafer on acknowledging grief. Visit Give InKind for information and concrete ways to help the bereaved.

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Consider what you want to convey in your gift of flowers. Here are some considerations in making a selection. Visit Give InKind for information, articles, and a new way to schedule food and support to those in times of need.

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