Share the Love for Shani helps to show love to the Wilde family as Shani (their wife and mom) goes through chemotherapy for stage 3 breast cancer. On 12/29/23 she received the devastating news and was diagnosed with breast cancer. Days later, the family loaded the moving van and moved from Las Vegas to Utah. 

Since then, while trying to make a home in Utah, she’s undergone numerous tests and consultations each step bringing its own set of challenges and emotions. She has been fighting this daunting battle almost quietly, and now we refuse to let her fight alone.

The next several months will be filled with chemotherapy sessions, surgeries, and uncertain outcomes. As much as Brandon and Shani wish they could take care of everything on their own, they know strength and healing comes with a support system of love and encouragement. 

As we share the love for Shani, she will be able to focus on what truly matters: her health and her journey towards healing so she can continue to do what she loves most- caring for and making memories with Brandon and their 6 children. 

Every act of kindness or donation, no matter how small, will make a difference. Your generosity will help alleviate the stress weighing on Shani and Brandon’s shoulders, allowing Shani to channel her energy into fighting this disease with all her might.

In times of darkness, it’s the light of love and solidarity that guides us forward. Please, join us in sharing the love for Shani during this challenging chapter of her life. Together, let’s show her that she is surrounded by an army of love and support, ready to lift her up and carry her through the toughest of times.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your kindness, generosity, and unwavering support.

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The digital Visa gift card is another convenient option for supporting someone when they need it most. It allows the recipient to select their own essentials or gifts from a wide range of merchants. The card will be emailed to your recipient’s inbox and is for online or by phone use only. It’s a thoughtful way to show your support and let them know you’re there for them.
Why we love this gift: 
With ever-changing needs, this gift allows your loved one to purchase whatever they need, whenever they need it. The digital Visa gift card is a fast, easy way to put funds in your recipient’s hands. This gift card is all about giving them that flexibility and peace of mind.

Looking for a memorable gift that adapts to any situation?
The physical Visa gift card combines the practicality of a Visa credit card—usable both in-store and online—and the thoughtfulness of a greeting card. For just $5.95 and the cost of your chosen shipping method, we will print your custom Give InKind Visa gift card and personalized greeting card, and send directly to your loved one. The versatility and personal touch of this gift makes it no surprise this is our most gifted card.
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<li>Versatility: Needs can change quickly in challenging times. This all-purpose gift card allows your loved one to purchase precisely what they need, when they need it. Be it a comforting meal, a therapy session, spa treatment, fuel, diapers, or countless other possibilities. No questions asked.</li>
<li>Personalization: Add a heartfelt message to both the gift card itself and the greeting card. Pick your favorite among the many available greeting card designs to give your gift a personal touch. And for those urgent moments, you can always choose to have your gift shipped overnight.</li>
<li>Show you care: It’s the perfect way of letting a recipient know you are thinking of them, no matter how far away they may be. Whether it’s sending love after the birth of a new baby, some healthy vibes with a Get Well card, or even a simple ‘Thinking of You’ your gift can truly make a difference for a friend going through some intense times.</li>
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The Give InKind Custom Visa card is the perfect way to show your support during challenging times, or anytime you want to show you care. Whether you're sending love after the birth of a new baby, or sending good vibes during a difficult period, the Give InKind Custom Visa card is the perfect way to show your support.
This card is available with an optional greeting card, so you can add a personal touch to your gesture. And for those urgent moments, you can always choose to have your card shipped overnight.
The Give InKind Custom Visa card is more than just a card. It's a way to make a difference in the lives of those you love, and give them the support they need. Show your support today with the Give InKind Custom Visa card.
Additional charges will apply at checkout depending on delivery preferences. There are no additional charges for any digital cards sent via email.

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Brinker International is one of the world's leading casual dining restaurant companies. With more than 1,600 restaurants and over 100,000 Team Members in 31 countries and two territories, they welcome more than one million Guests into Chili's and Maggiano's restaurants every day.
Why We Love This Gift: Brinker International is driven by integrity, teamwork, and passion - plus an unwavering commitment for every Guest to have an exceptional dining experience when visiting. For a family in need of a break at one of their favorite restaurants, this is the perfect gift.
What To Express In Your Card: Sending a gift I know you will love. Please, call me anytime.

Brinker International

Brinker International is one of the world&#8217;s leading casual dining restaurant companies. With more than 1,600 restaurants and over 100,000 Team Members in 31 countries and two territories, they welcome more than one million Guests into Chili&#8217;s and Maggiano&#8217;s restaurants every day.

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The family-friendly restaurant is famous for hand-cut steaks, made-from-scratch sides, fresh-baked bread, and a lively atmosphere.
Based in Louisville, Kentucky, Texas Roadhouse opened its doors in 1993 and has more than 611 locations in 49 states and ten countries.
Newsweek recognized Texas Roadhouse as one of America's Best Customer Service restaurants in the Casual Dining category in 2019.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because there is something very satisfying - and delicious, too - about a big and juicy steak. What's not to love?
What To Express In Your Card: Enjoy a night out - you deserve it. Let's chat soon?

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The family-friendly restaurant is famous for hand-cut steaks, made-from-scratch sides, fresh-baked bread, and a lively atmosphere.

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Find the brands you love at prices that work for you at T.J.Maxx!
T.J. Maxx believes everyone deserves to be surrounded by beautiful, high-quality, on-trend things at incredible savings. Fashion, family, or home, you'll find just what you need to help maximize what matters most to you. 
Maxx life with a TJX gift card - redeemable at over 3200 T.J.Maxx&reg;, Marshalls&reg;, HomeGoods&reg;, Homesense&trade;, and Sierra&reg; stores (in the U.S. and Puerto Rico) and online. 
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it enables the recipient to make their selection from overflow design options. Everyone can use a quality designer piece.
What To Express In Your Card: Hoping this gives you something to look forward to - I know how excited I get to go to T.J. Maxx.

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Find the brands you love at prices that work for you at T.J.Maxx!

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One of the best-known names in cruising, Princess Cruises first set sail in 1965 with a single ship cruising to Mexico.
Today, the line has grown to become the third largest cruise line in the world, renowned for innovative ships, an array of onboard options, and an environment of exceptional customer service.
A recognized leader in worldwide cruising, Princess offers approximately 1.7 million passengers each year the opportunity to escape to the top destinations around the globe, aboard a fleet of 18 modern vessels.
Why We Love This Gift: Cruises can make an excellent gift for a loved one experiencing loss. Although the loss of a spouse or family member can feel impossible to overcome, cruises provide an opportunity to understand your grief journey in a new way - offering either a break from daily reminders or providing a supportive way to reclaim feelings of loneliness as independence. Whatever the reason, cruises offer bereaved loved ones a much-needed break.
What To Express In Your Card: I cannot imagine how difficult what you are going through must be. I hope this offers you some much-needed relaxation. I love you beyond measure.

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One of the best-known names in cruising, Princess Cruises first set sail in 1965 with a single ship cruising to Mexico.

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One card. A world of possibilities!
A Disney Gift Card eGift can be used anywhere the Disney Gift Card is accepted, including:
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<li>Disneyland&reg; Resort</li>
<li>Disney Cruise Line</li>
<li>Disney Store locations within the US, Canada, and Puerto Rico</li>
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<li>Aulani, A Disney Resort &amp; Spa</li>
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Disney Parks and Resorts 
Use for tickets, hotels, entertainment, shopping, dining, and more at select locations throughout the Walt Disney World&reg; and Disneyland&reg; Resorts.
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Use nationwide at Disney store and online for clothes, movies, collectibles, and more.
Vacations 
Use for reservations at Disney Resorts and aboard Disney Cruise Line.
Why We Love This Gift: Absolutely any family with youngsters will appreciate a Disney gift card. We love this gift because no matter what the situation, it provides children with endless possibilities!
What To Express In Your Card: You have been so strong, little one. I love you so much.

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Give the gift of entertainment! Cinemark gift cards make the perfect gift for any occasion. Buy one for yourself, or give it as a gift.
Cinemark gift cards can be redeemed online or at any local theatre for box office and concessions.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it forces people off of their couches and out of their houses. They can escape into a movie of their choosing, which can often help them clear their heads. Perfect for the whole family.
What To Express In Your Card: I know you have a lot on your mind right now. I hoped that you would enjoy a movie. I wanted to provide what little escapism I am able - I'd love to join you if you'll have me--sending you lots of love.

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Give the gift of entertainment! Cinemark gift cards make the perfect gift for any occasion. Buy one for yourself, or give it as a gift.

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With a Sam's Club eGift Card, you get low prices every day on thousands of popular products in stores or online. You'll find a wide assortment of top electronics, toys, home essentials, and more.
Why We Love This Gift: A one-stop-shop for groceries and home essentials is the perfect gift for busy families. For parents with a newborn, that means dinner for the family, diapers, and other random necessities are taken care of in one trip. That leaves a lot more time to focus on what matters. 
What To Express In Your Card: I cannot imagine how busy you must be. I hope this covers some essential items. I love you.

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With a Sam&#8217;s Club eGift Card, you get low prices every day on thousands of popular products in stores or online. You&#8217;ll find a wide assortment of top electronics, toys, home essentials, and more.

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No vacation's as big or as bold as a Royal Caribbean cruise. Each award-winning cruise ship in the fleet offers world-class dining, dazzling entertainment, and plenty of family-friendly thrills to dive into between cruising adventures.
With hundreds of destinations in 72 countries on six continents to choose from, all you have to do is pick a spot and go.
While you sail, enjoy first-at-sea experiences on innovative ships such as the FlowRider&reg; surf simulator, rock-climbing walls, zip line, ice-skating rink, AquaTheater shows, and Boardwalk&reg; carousel.
Whether you're lounging at the pool, enjoying a gourmet meal in the dining room, relaxing with a massage in the spa or taking a break in your room, you will be wowed by the Gold Anchor Service&reg;.
Why We Love This Gift: Cruises can make an excellent gift for a loved one experiencing loss. Although the loss of a spouse or family member can feel impossible to overcome, cruises provide an opportunity to understand your grief journey in a new way - offering either a break from daily reminders or providing a supportive way to reclaim feelings of loneliness as independence. Whatever the reason, cruises offer bereaved loved ones a much-needed break.
What To Express In Your Card: I cannot imagine how difficult what you are going through must be. I hope this offers you some much-needed relaxation. I love you beyond measure.

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No vacation&#8217;s as big or as bold as a Royal Caribbean cruise. Each award-winning cruise ship in the fleet offers world-class dining, dazzling entertainment, and plenty of family-friendly thrills to dive into between cruising adventures.

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CareCard by Give InKind is the personalized, versatile gift card that turns money into true support.
When a loved one is experiencing a life event--expected or not--our first instinct is to ask "How can I help?". Sometimes it can be the most impossible question to answer. 
When you send someone a CareCard, the recipient can turn it into a gift card of their choice* that will help support them in their unique situation. From food, to shopping, to home care gift cards, and more, the CareCard by Give InKind personalizes support on a whole new level.  
Which gift cards can your CareCard by Give InKind become?
The CareCard holder can choose from 200+ gift cards:
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<li>Amazon</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;">Home Depot</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;">Walmart</li>
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Who can receive a CareCard?
Anyone who is the Recipient of an InKind Page can receive a CareCard! Send a virtual CareCard directly to their inbox and let someone know you're thinking about them today.
*CareCard recipients select from a list of over 200 gift cards.

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A Reward Link is simply the easiest way to give the gift of choice. You&#8217;ll find dozens of premium gift cards, and with digital delivery you will receive the reward value instantly. You are a few simple clicks away from choosing the gift card you really want.

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Every season starts at Dick's Sporting Goods! With the best collection of sporting goods, apparel, and footwear, Dick's Sporting Goods includes all of your indoor or outdoor sporting needs.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because sports are an excellent way for children (or adults) to blow off steam while grieving, especially during stressful times. Sports commitments, gear, tournament fees - all of it - can be an enormous resource suck for families. Cleats purchased in the fall no longer fit in the spring. This gift provides a family struggling financially with the means to facilitate positive coping mechanisms for the little ones.
What To Express In Your Card: Sports are so great for your children during this time. I know how quickly you need new sports equipment for their upcoming season. I hope this helps.

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Every season starts at Dick&#8217;s Sporting Goods! With the best collection of sporting goods, apparel, and footwear, Dick&#8217;s Sporting Goods includes all of your indoor or outdoor sporting needs.

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From fresh hand-prepared salads to mouthwatering burgers, Chili's kicks up the flavor with food that is anything but ordinary.
Why We Love This Gift: Burgers. Ribs. Fajitas - what's not to love about fresh Tex Mex flavors?
What To Express In Your Card: Sending a gift I know you will love. Please, call me anytime.

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From fresh hand-prepared salads to mouthwatering burgers, Chili&#8217;s kicks up the flavor with food that is anything but ordinary.

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With your favorite restaurants at your fingertips, DoorDash satisfies your cravings and connects you with possibilities -- more time and energy for yourself and those you love.
Why We Love This Gift: In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo

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Show someone you care by giving them a Shell gift card, which can be redeemed at more than 14,000 Shell stations across all 50 U.S. states for gas, car washes, auto supplies, food and snacks and more.
Why We Love This Gift: Transportation is one of the many expenses that can pile up when life takes an unexpected turn. Help offset those expenses with a gift card for Shell gas, and relieve some of the burden from friends or family who may be spending many more hours on the road.
What To Express In Your Card: Hope this helps! Love you.
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Cleanliness plays a large role in the comfort of your home, but many homeowners simply don't have the time to complete this task due to their busy lifestyles. Molly Maids recognize that a clean home is a happy home.
Why We Love This Gift: The gift of a clean house is one of those things that is perfect for anyone. New baby? Sick child? Loved one in treatment? Busy single parent? A clean house is always a welcome gift.
What To Express in Your Card: I wish I could just come and do this for you. Since I can't, I hope you will accept this little token of my love.

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What is the best gift anytime? A Target eGift Card. With no fees and no expiration dates, the real question is: who couldn't use a gift card from Target?
Why We Love This Gift: Whether as a baby gift or to replenish supplies around the house, to cheer up a sick kid, or help someone with prescription costs, you can almost always find exactly what you need at Target. We love this gift because it enables your recipient with endless options and the ability to purchase precisely what they need - no questions asked.
What To Say In Your Card: I thought this might come in handy. I am sending you so much love!

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Give the gift of entertainment. The ultimate go to for just about anyone.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it forces people off of their couches and out of their houses. This is a great date night for parents who never see anything but Pixar in a movie theater. Challenge them to see one Oscar-nominated movie so that they aren't totally out of it at the Oscar party. Or, recognize that escapism is an important element of grieving or care-taking. Have them take a break. They can escape into a movie of their choosing which can often help them to clear their heads.
What To Express In Your Card: I know you have a lot on your mind right now. I hoped that you would enjoy a movie. I wanted to provide what little escapism I am able - I'd love to join you if you'll have me. Sending you lots of love.
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This e-gift card allows access to all Walmart products. Useful for anyone anywhere.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it offers access to things like pharmacies when a family you love is in need. Many aspects of surgical care are not covered by insurance - these expenses can add up. This is especially true when a family is on a fixed income. Items like canes, walkers, surgical gauze, and more - can all be underwritten in this way. (Bonus: It respects, as well, the privacy and dignity of the person you love). Supplements that are doctor recommended (always check) can also be covered in this manner. Walmart also just has everything so for someone who has lost their job it enables them to get what they need without spelling it all out. People are proud.
What To Express in Your Card: You'd do exactly the same. xo

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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.
Through their vision of Food With Integrity, Chipotle is seeking better food from using ingredients that are not only fresh, but that - where possible - are sustainably grown and raised responsibly with respect for the animals, the land, and the farmers who produce the food. And...delicious too!
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because Chipotle offers a clean and affordable fast food alternative. This is a great gift for anyone - who doesn't love Chipotle?
What To Express In Your Card: I miss you! Grab a meal. Sending you love.

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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.

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Hotels.com gift cards range from $10 up to $2,000, and there's no expiration date or fees. Choose to either email your gift card instantly or order a plastic card to be sent via mail to your recipient. With 150,000 + options and the choice to add personalized messages, this gift card is the perfect gift for almost anyone. 
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Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it offers peace of mind to your recipient. It offers flexibility in hotel options - especially when travel becomes necessary in an instant. This travel can be the result of an emergency, accompanying a loved one to a specialized medical treatment, or traveling to find work alternatives. It can also be used in the aftermath of a crisis or loss, as a way to provide rest and recovery to loved ones.
What To Express In Your Card: I know you have a lot of unexpected costs piling up. I wanted to help, but also to make sure you're comfortable while traveling during this time. I hope you'll accept this - it's my pleasure to provide it. I am thinking of you so much and send my love.
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Amazon gift cards never expire and they carry no fees. Redeemable towards millions of items at Amazon.com and also certain affiliated websites. Deliverable electronically and instantly.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it's appropriate for any situation. Let your recipient choose just what they need, when they need it... with ease, convenience, and endless options.
What To Express In Your Card: I'm sending you my love.

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Good at over 25,000 locations nationwide, recipients can use their Spafinder gift card for a massage or facial, yoga or pilates classes, acupuncture or chiropractic, or over 25 total services. Encourage your loved one to take a break for themselves with a wellness gift card they can use anytime. Available in any denomination between $25 - $500.
Why We Love This Gift: This is one of those gifts perfect in just about any situation. New moms and those facing stressful pregnancies love a massage. When facing illness, those affected do too. To be frank, self-care is often the first casualty of any crisis. When people are incurring unexpected costs at an alarming rate, the first thing to go are the "luxuries." However, those who face highly stressful situations with long/uncertain outcome are precisely those who should practice aggressive self-care. They won't do it for themselves. You do it for them. Pamper them. Let them know you want them to take a break and that their well-being is a priority.
What to Express in Your Card: I hope you don't mind my sending you this gift certificate. There is no one I know more in need of a massage/facial/yoga class. I know you won't do it for yourself - so I wanted to do it for you. I am sending you love.

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In a child's mind - the word cancer isn't necessarily a scary word. Get tips for how to talk to your kids about a cancer diagnosis.

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I have cancer. How do I tell my kids? In a child&#8217;s mind &#8211; the word cancer isn&#8217;t necessarily a scary word. Don&#8217;t scare them with your own fear. When Amie Lands was diagnosed with aggressive Head &amp; Neck cancer, her boys were only six and two. Throughout her battle, Amie, a Certified Grief Coach, [&hellip;]

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Setting up a food train is one of the best ways to help support someone you love. Here are some tips on how to give groceries as a gift.

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Sharagim Kemp, M.D. suggests the most helpful ways to support a family whose loved one is in treatment for cancer. Visit Give InKind for additional information.

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