At approximately 1410 EST, our fellow warrior,  Ian Durham entered the Halls of Valhalla, surrounded by his wife Amanda and immediate family. Gunny Durham unexpectedly passed away from medical complications. 
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We are requesting support for the immediate needs of the family. Gift cards for gas, grocery, and housekeeping are greatly appreciated. The long term needs of the family are covered. The short term immediate support is needed to include gas, groceries and lodging for the upcoming funeral.

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