Avion “Gotti” Hardy Jr. touched countless lives during his 27 years. A former Marine, he was beloved son, a devoted father to his one-year-old son, the eldest of five siblings, and an adored cousin and nephew to an extended family who loved him. His humor, boldness, and tenacity for life left an undeniable mark on all who knew him.

But even the strongest among us carry battles unseen.  Avion faced a heartbreak that felt insurmountable. The weight of that pain became too much to bear, and in a moment of overwhelming despair, he tragically took his life.

His family is now left not only with the grief of losing someone so cherished but also with the unexpected financial burden of funeral expenses and navigating this challenging time. As they cope with this unimaginable loss, we have the opportunity to come together and offer support.

How You Can Help?
The Hardy family is deeply grateful for the outpouring of love they’ve already received. For those who wish to support them further, here are some meaningful ways to help:

Meal Train: Providing meals can ease their burden during this time of mourning. You can sign up to deliver home-cooked meals or arrange for meal delivery services to ensure they have one less thing to worry about.

Gift Cards: Grocery store or restaurant gift cards can offer flexibility and help the family meet their immediate needs.

Financial Contributions: Direct donations can assist the family in covering funeral costs, financial support for his child and other unexpected expenses. No amount is too small, and every contribution is deeply appreciated. You can send money directly through Zelle to his mother, Kershay Hardy at 214-868-2691. The family will also accept donations at the same phone number on Cash App.

A Family in Need of Prayers and Love
While practical support is invaluable, the Hardy family also asks for prayers to help them find peace during this time of sorrow. Their hearts are broken, but they are holding onto the love and memories of Avion to guide them through the difficult time.

Let us honor Avion “Gotti” Hardy Jr. by coming together as a community—offering not just words of comfort but tangible acts of care and compassion. In this way, we can help carry the weight of their grief and remind them they are not alone.

If you or someone you know is struggling, there is hope and help available.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Dial 988
Veterans Crisis Line: Dial 988, then Press 1
You are not alone.

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The digital Visa gift card is another convenient option for supporting someone when they need it most. It allows the recipient to select their own essentials or gifts from a wide range of merchants. The card will be emailed to your recipient’s inbox and is for online or by phone use only. It’s a thoughtful way to show your support and let them know you’re there for them.
Why we love this gift: 
With ever-changing needs, this gift allows your loved one to purchase whatever they need, whenever they need it. The digital Visa gift card is a fast, easy way to put funds in your recipient’s hands. This gift card is all about giving them that flexibility and peace of mind.

Looking for a memorable gift that adapts to any situation?
The physical Visa gift card combines the practicality of a Visa credit card—usable both in-store and online—and the thoughtfulness of a greeting card. For just $5.95 and the cost of your chosen shipping method, we will print your custom Give InKind Visa gift card and personalized greeting card, and send directly to your loved one. The versatility and personal touch of this gift makes it no surprise this is our most gifted card.
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<li>Personalization: Add a heartfelt message to both the gift card itself and the greeting card. Pick your favorite among the many available greeting card designs to give your gift a personal touch. And for those urgent moments, you can always choose to have your gift shipped overnight.</li>
<li>Show you care: It’s the perfect way of letting a recipient know you are thinking of them, no matter how far away they may be. Whether it’s sending love after the birth of a new baby, some healthy vibes with a Get Well card, or even a simple ‘Thinking of You’ your gift can truly make a difference for a friend going through some intense times.</li>
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The Give InKind Custom Visa card is the perfect way to show your support during challenging times, or anytime you want to show you care. Whether you're sending love after the birth of a new baby, or sending good vibes during a difficult period, the Give InKind Custom Visa card is the perfect way to show your support.
This card is available with an optional greeting card, so you can add a personal touch to your gesture. And for those urgent moments, you can always choose to have your card shipped overnight.
The Give InKind Custom Visa card is more than just a card. It's a way to make a difference in the lives of those you love, and give them the support they need. Show your support today with the Give InKind Custom Visa card.
Additional charges will apply at checkout depending on delivery preferences. There are no additional charges for any digital cards sent via email.

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CareCard by Give InKind is the personalized, versatile gift card that turns money into true support.
When a loved one is experiencing a life event--expected or not--our first instinct is to ask "How can I help?". Sometimes it can be the most impossible question to answer. 
When you send someone a CareCard, the recipient can turn it into a gift card of their choice* that will help support them in their unique situation. From food, to shopping, to home care gift cards, and more, the CareCard by Give InKind personalizes support on a whole new level.  
Which gift cards can your CareCard by Give InKind become?
The CareCard holder can choose from 200+ gift cards:
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Who can receive a CareCard?
Anyone who is the Recipient of an InKind Page can receive a CareCard! Send a virtual CareCard directly to their inbox and let someone know you're thinking about them today.
*CareCard recipients select from a list of over 200 gift cards.

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A Reward Link is simply the easiest way to give the gift of choice. You&#8217;ll find dozens of premium gift cards, and with digital delivery you will receive the reward value instantly. You are a few simple clicks away from choosing the gift card you really want.

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Instead of flowers, consider sending your grieving loved one meaningful support that lasts all year long.
Grief Coach will deliver grief support via SMS, personalized based on age, cause of death, and relationship. Best of all, if your grieving loved one has friends and family who want to help, they can receive tips and reminders too.
Go to <a href="https://grief.coach/giveinkind/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">grief.coach</a> and use the code giveinkind to get $10 off a gift subscription. Because grief is hard, but it's a little easier when we have people by our side.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it's for grieving people and amazing friends and family who want to support them. Plus, it lasts all year long - which matters a lot.
What To Say In Your Card: I'm going to stay by your side this year, through all of your ups &amp; downs. This subscription will help me to understand some of what you're going through so that I can give you the support you need. You can receive messages too, if you like, just let me know.

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Get a reliable ride in minutes with the Uber app. This card is redeemable via the Uber app within the U.S. in cities where Uber is available.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it affords people the opportunity to get around. Safely. We love that. For people who are in treatment and too sick to get home from the doctor, to people who are no longer comfortable driving at night, this gift empowers people.
What To Express In Your Card: I know that transport can be complicated. I wanted to make sure that you could get around easily. I wish I were there to do this myself - but in case you need this as a convenience on your terms - here you are! Sending love.

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Get a reliable ride in minutes with the Uber app. This card is redeemable via the Uber app within the U.S. in cities where Uber is available.

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This e-gift card allows access to all Walmart products. Useful for anyone anywhere.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it offers access to things like pharmacies when a family you love is in need. Many aspects of surgical care are not covered by insurance - these expenses can add up. This is especially true when a family is on a fixed income. Items like canes, walkers, surgical gauze, and more - can all be underwritten in this way. (Bonus: It respects, as well, the privacy and dignity of the person you love). Supplements that are doctor recommended (always check) can also be covered in this manner. Walmart also just has everything so for someone who has lost their job it enables them to get what they need without spelling it all out. People are proud.
What To Express in Your Card: You'd do exactly the same. xo

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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.
Through their vision of Food With Integrity, Chipotle is seeking better food from using ingredients that are not only fresh, but that - where possible - are sustainably grown and raised responsibly with respect for the animals, the land, and the farmers who produce the food. And...delicious too!
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because Chipotle offers a clean and affordable fast food alternative. This is a great gift for anyone - who doesn't love Chipotle?
What To Express In Your Card: I miss you! Grab a meal. Sending you love.

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Why We Love This Gift: Shopping for groceries is a chore under the best of circumstances. For families facing a new lift event or crisis, it is very often incredibly stressful. The gift of a cupboard full of basic necessities is tremendous. It is a wonderful way to remind those you love that you have not forgotten the day-to-day challenges they face. You are telling them in no uncertain terms that they are not alone.
What to Express in Your Card: I was thinking about the things you have to get done every day. I hope you'll let me help a little by giving me a chance to buy you some groceries - and have them delivered to you. Just one lest task for you to worry about. I send you my love.

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Everyone deserves the gift of self-care. Give the nourishing gift of self-care with Joy Organic's Self-Care Bundle, created to take care of the ones you love and includes:
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Joy Organics ensures to extract any trace amounts of THC from every product. Joy Organics has a reliable third-party lab to test and ensure no detectable THC levels are in any products included in the Self-Care Bundle. 
Use coupon code 'inkind' to get 20% off your order! 
Why We Love This Gift: At Give InKind, we believe that natural support is better support. Plus, who couldn't use a loving reminder to engage in a much-needed self-care ritual? 
What To Express In Your Card: I want you to take some time to yourself and relax - hope this helps! I love you.

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Wayfair Gift Cards are the perfect way to let someone know you care without all the hassle of finding the perfect item.
With one of the world's largest online selections of furniture, home furnishings, décor, and goods, including more than ten million products from over 10,000 suppliers, Wayfair helps people find the perfect product at the right price.
Wayfair's extensive selection and superior customer service, coupled with the convenience of online shopping, make it easier than ever before to find exactly what you want for your home at a price you can afford.
Why We Love This Gift: There are endless ways in which new furniture can help someone you love. To provide a simple example, the nursery for a new baby requires a new crib, mattress, nursing chair and pillow, changing tables, and drawers and dressers, etc. We love this gift because it provides families with financial support when furniture is needed - allowing them to choose whatever they need.
What To Express In Your Card: Let me know if I can help set things up. I love you so much!

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Wayfair Gift Cards are the perfect way to let someone know you care without all the hassle of finding the perfect item.

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Gift-giving has never been easier with the 1-800-FLOWERS.COM&reg; Gift Card! Browse a wide selection of fresh flowers, delicious gourmet treats and desserts, beautiful plants, stunning gift baskets, and more - and then choose exactly what you want!
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because we agree that flowers send a message of hope, encouragement, joy - and sadness too. Few other things are so universal.
What To Express In Your Card: I am thinking of you.

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Gift-giving has never been easier with the 1-800-FLOWERS.COM® Gift Card! Browse a wide selection of fresh flowers, delicious gourmet treats and desserts, beautiful plants, stunning gift baskets, and more &#8211; and then choose exactly what you want!

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Uber Eats is the easy way to get the food you love delivered.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it allows the recipient to choose exactly what they want, when they want it. Sometimes we need to have a backup plan tucked away in our pocket, and Uber Eats is it. Bonus: Uber Eats gift cards are also redeemable for Uber rides.
What To Say In Your Card: Please eat something. I am thinking about you.

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Butcher Box's goal is to make 100% grass-fed beef more accessible than ever before - featuring 100% grass-fed, grass-finished beef; heritage-breed pork; free-range, organic chicken; and wild Alaskan salmon gift box options.
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<li>Butcher Box Mixed Box - 100% Grass-fed, Grass-finished Beef, Free Range Organic Chicken and Heritage Breed Pork.</li>
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Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because we love sustainable practices in meat production. Shopping can be a little more expensive, but this is money well spent. It is a real gift to those who want to know the source of their food.
What To Express In Your Card:  Please eat well and know that I am thinking of you constantly. When can you talk?

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Italian Generosity is always on the table.  At Olive Garden, we know that life is better together and everyone is happiest when they're with family. From never ending servings of our freshly baked breadsticks and iconic garden salad, to our homemade soups and sauces, there's something for everyone to enjoy.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking so much about you. Please take a few minutes to get something to eat and drink - on me.

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Olive Garden offers an award-winning wine list and a range of delicious Italian dishes inspired by the Culinary Institute of Tuscany in Italy.

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Slumberkins Sprite Snuggler provides parents and caregivers a resource to create a loving routine that helps start an open conversation on grief and loss with your child. 
The Sprite Snuggler's interactive story helps them understand that those who are no longer by our side continue to live within our hearts.
Slumberkins is a leading children's educational brand dedicated to the mission of promoting early emotional learning. Each Early Emotional Learning Collection uses research-based techniques to teach little ones important social-emotional skills. Through proactive and supportive narratives, each collection is intentionally crafted to build a resilient, caring, and confident child.
The Grief and Loss Collection includes a Sprite Snuggler, a Board Book, and an Affirmation Card - along with free resources and digital downloads online at Slumberkin's School website.
Why We Love This Gift: Coping with grief and loss is overwhelming and unimaginably painful for everyone involved. Starting a conversation about one's pain can be a very beneficial activity when processing this loss. However, the developing mind needs additional help from caregivers to find the right words. The Sprite Snuggler provides caregivers with a useful tool to start an open dialogue with a grieving child.
What To Express In Your Card: I cannot imagine the loss your family has endured. I hope that creating a comfortable space with your little one to talk about these big emotions may somehow be helpful. Please give me a call if you need anything or just need a resource to vent. I love you.

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Setting up a food train is one of the best ways to help support someone you love. Here are some tips on how to give groceries as a gift.

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