It all began when Wilson's leg went out from under him when he was at BGSU a while ago. He was unable to walk or put any weight on it and eventually, he was unable to walk on it at all. Ellen took him to her family doctor who immediately referred them to a specialist. After numerous MRIs, tests, etc, it was determined that Wilson needed back surgery immediately. Upon coming out of anesthesia, Wilson had a difficult time, and it was then that doctors suspected something was off. Although they are not definite, it appears that Wilson had a spinal stroke (whether that happened during surgery or after is unclear). Currently, he has no use of his legs. Doctors are recommending that he move to either Metro in Cleveland or go to a place in AnnArbor/Detroit where they specialize in care/rehabilitation. The next six months are critical. For those of us who love Wilson and want to support the family during this challenging time, I have created this page where I can post updates and where you can support the family.


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Yard House is the modern American gathering place where beer and food lovers unite - known for its New American cuisine, classic rock music and an endless fleet of tap handles featuring the best American craft and import beers.
Why We Love This Gift: For a family or individual going through a difficult time, a meal shared is true and lasting kindness - and a gift appreciated beyond measure.
What To Express In Your Card: I am thinking so much about you. Please take a few minutes to get something to eat and drink - on me.

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Yard House is an upscale, casual eatery known for its extensive menu of contemporary American cuisine, classic rock music, and an endless fleet of tap handle featuring craft, import, and specialty ales &amp; lagers.

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The family-friendly restaurant is famous for hand-cut steaks, made-from-scratch sides, fresh-baked bread, and a lively atmosphere.
Based in Louisville, Kentucky, Texas Roadhouse opened its doors in 1993 and has more than 611 locations in 49 states and ten countries.
Newsweek recognized Texas Roadhouse as one of America's Best Customer Service restaurants in the Casual Dining category in 2019.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because there is something very satisfying - and delicious, too - about a big and juicy steak. What's not to love?
What To Express In Your Card: Enjoy a night out - you deserve it. Let's chat soon?

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The family-friendly restaurant is famous for hand-cut steaks, made-from-scratch sides, fresh-baked bread, and a lively atmosphere.

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Panera Bread is committed to providing great-tasting, quality food that people can trust.
Highlighted by antibiotic-free chicken, whole grain bread, select organic and all-natural ingredients, and a menu free of man-made trans-fat, Panera is committed to providing great tasting quality food people can trust.
With a wide variety of year-round favorites, their menu is complemented by new items introduced seasonally with the goal of creating new standards in everyday food choices. In neighborhoods across the country, guests are enjoying Panera's warm and welcoming environment featuring comfortable gathering areas, relaxing decor, and free Wi-Fi access.
Why We Love This Gift: We like convenient, comfortable, and quality chain restaurant food. You know who else might like it? Anyone who has reason to spend time with a sick relative in a hospital. Chain restaurants can provide a valuable change of scene and a little headspace.
What To Express In Your Card: Please stop for a minute and eat something. Let's catch up soon? I love and miss you.

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Outback Steakhouse, an Australian-inspired casual dining restaurant, starts fresh every day to create the flavors our mates crave.
Internationally known for award-winning steaks and a wide variety of chicken, ribs, seafood, Outback also offers a wide variety of crisp salads and freshly made soups and sides. Outback is committed to consistently high-quality food and service, generous portions at a down under value in a fun, casual atmosphere suggestive of the Australian Outback.
Why We Love This Gift: Outback Steakhouse is an excellent option for the family if you want to have an evening of togetherness. Taking just a simple opportunity to change up the scenery can be a gift that keeps giving. As a bonus, kids love steakhouses and find them uniquely exciting.
What To Express In Your Card: Thinking of you and your family. Please, enjoy a night out together.

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Outback Steakhouse, an Australian-inspired casual dining restaurant, starts fresh every day to create the flavors our mates crave.

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Taco Bell is the world's leading Mexican-inspired quick service restaurant (QSR) brand. Taco Bell serves made-to-order and customizable tacos and burritos and other specialties with bold flavors, quality ingredients, breakthrough value, and best-in-class customer service to over 40 million customers weekly across the globe.
Please Note: eGift Cards are redeemable exclusively for food and drink purchases on their website or through the Taco Bell&reg; mobile app. 
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it provides a break for an exhausted family to sit down together and enjoy a meal. Taco Bell gift cards are great for families who require disaster relief, perhaps after the loss of their home. In the same way, during a medical crisis, the ability to provide a quick source of sustenance is an extraordinarily valuable gift during stressful times. Even pregnant mothers will appreciate the immediate relief a Taco Bell burrito provides during emergency cravings.
What To Express In Your Card: You have endured a lot recently. I am sending this to you as a reminder to take a pause and feed yourself.

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Taco Bell is the world&#8217;s leading Mexican-inspired quick service restaurant (QSR) brand. Taco Bell serves made-to-order and customizable tacos and burritos and other specialties with bold flavors, quality ingredients, breakthrough value, and best-in-class customer service to over 40 million customers weekly across the globe.

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Buffalo Wild Wings&reg; is a sports bar with beer and wings and a crazy amount of TVs showing all the games - along with rowdy fans and all the sauces for all the wings!
So bring your friends, your outside voice, and cheer on your favorite team to victory at any of their 1,200+ locations nationwide.
Why We Love This Gift: Buffalo Wild Wings is an excellent gift for any recipient in desperate need of a break - to take their mind off of things, enjoy some delicious wings, and share a meal with friends and family.
What To Express In Your Card: I know how stressful things have been lately. You deserve to have a fun night out. I love you!

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The Bloomin' Brands gift card is redeemable at any Outback Steakhouse, Carrabba's Italian Grill, Bonefish Grill, or Fleming's Prime Steakhouse and Wine Bar in the United States.
Why We Love This Gift: We like convenient and quality chain restaurant food. You know who else might like it? Anyone who has reason to spend time with a sick relative in a hospital. Chain restaurants can provide a valuable change of scene, a glass of wine - and a little headspace.
What To Express In Your Card: Everyone loves having options. I am thinking of you.

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The Bloomin&#8217; Brands gift card is redeemable at any Outback Steakhouse, Carrabba&#8217;s Italian Grill, Bonefish Grill, or Fleming&#8217;s Prime Steakhouse and Wine Bar in the United States.

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Sip into Dunkin' Donuts and enjoy America's favorite coffee and baked goods chain.
Why We Love This Gift: Whether your recipient is a pregnant mother experience cravings or a stressed-out family with children - donuts send a message to sit down, relax, and enjoy a sweet moment. We love this gift because everyone loves donuts, pretty much any time.
What To Express In Your Card: Please, treat yourself to coffee and donuts. You deserve it.

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This gift is perfect and very useful for almost anyone. Kroger is the largest supermarket chain in the United States - so it allows the recipient to choose their own present.
This gift is perfect if you are not sure what grocery stores your loved one has nearby. The Kroger family is huge, including supermarkets like Fred Meyer, QFC, Fry's, Baker's, Food 4 Less, and much, much more. You can be sure your loved one is nearby a Kroger store and has access to what they need.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because we really like things that are convenient. For people on a budget, this is a real concern.
What To Say In Your Card: I wanted to give you a little something that gives you options.

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People with Spotify eGift Cards can access all its digital content using computers, tablets, smartphones, and home entertainment systems.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because music provides a cathartic release from situations that stress and challenge those we love. A really excellent playlist allows people a necessary cry in the car - or just the chance to reflect. Similarly, an inspirational playlist can encourage positive lifestyle choices - walking, running, more. Know someone who needs someone to take their mind off of things? This is a great gift for a friend or loved one who needs a little musical pick me up.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you - and sending you lots of love.

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With your favorite restaurants at your fingertips, DoorDash satisfies your cravings and connects you with possibilities -- more time and energy for yourself and those you love.
Why We Love This Gift: In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo

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Show someone you care by giving them a Shell gift card, which can be redeemed at more than 14,000 Shell stations across all 50 U.S. states for gas, car washes, auto supplies, food and snacks and more.
Why We Love This Gift: Transportation is one of the many expenses that can pile up when life takes an unexpected turn. Help offset those expenses with a gift card for Shell gas, and relieve some of the burden from friends or family who may be spending many more hours on the road.
What To Express In Your Card: Hope this helps! Love you.
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Beautiful gift boxes for someone who is experiencing a difficult transition. Boxes can contain inspirational reminders of love and support, candles, journals, self-care items and much more.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it enables a box of care items to be delivered to a recipient that has been curated by the giver. This enables flexibility in giving so that each item can be selected to suit any difficult situation. People who wish to express complex feelings often report getting tripped up in a fear of saying "the wrong thing." Many report, though, that once they begin to try to express themselves they are glad they did. And across the board, those navigating difficult circumstances, report that the worst thing that people can say is nothing at all.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you constantly. I feel a bit powerless to help you. These are a few things I thought might help a little. And, more than anything else I want you to know that I am thinking of you and holding you close.

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From Jalapeno poppers to portobello mushrooms, TGI Friday has you covered.
Why We Love This Gift: Sometimes, a drink or some mozzarella sticks are just the thing. Editorial staff at Give InKind have been told by more than one person in more than one circumstance (senior care, hospice, and a child in the hospital) that the ability to walk away for a minute from an acutely stressful situation is a major sanity saver.
What To Express in Your Card: I took a look at where you are, and I just wanted to send you a little something to help you take a break. So. Please try to. Ok?
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Give the gift of take-out. Seriously, the perfect gift for any situation.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it is take-out and everyone loves take-out. It gives your recipient the flexibility to order exactly what they want, when they want it. Pregnancy cravings are no joke. Neither is the stress level of a single parent on a school night. Young professionals who get sick often hate the loss of their own agency. The capacity to choose one's own dinner is not to be underestimated. Nothing says I love you like Pad Thai.
What To Express in Your Card: I wanted you to be able to choose your own meal. I am thinking of you!

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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.
Through their vision of Food With Integrity, Chipotle is seeking better food from using ingredients that are not only fresh, but that - where possible - are sustainably grown and raised responsibly with respect for the animals, the land, and the farmers who produce the food. And...delicious too!
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because Chipotle offers a clean and affordable fast food alternative. This is a great gift for anyone - who doesn't love Chipotle?
What To Express In Your Card: I miss you! Grab a meal. Sending you love.

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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.

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Amazon gift cards never expire and they carry no fees. Redeemable towards millions of items at Amazon.com and also certain affiliated websites. Deliverable electronically and instantly.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it's appropriate for any situation. Let your recipient choose just what they need, when they need it... with ease, convenience, and endless options.
What To Express In Your Card: I'm sending you my love.

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Papa John's gift cards can be given to anyone who loves great pizza. Papa John's Gift Cards never expire.
Why We Love This Gift: Pizza is the perfect meal to share with the people you love. Because...who doesn't love pizza?
What To Express in Your Card: I hope this covers the costs for your next pizza night. Enjoy!

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Domino's gift cards can be redeemed for pizza, sandwiches, desserts, and much more. Try their Artisan Pizza, Stuffed Cheesy Bread, Oven Baked Sandwiches, Parmesan Bread Bites, or Chocolate Lava Crunch Cakes. With the Domino's Pizza gift card, you can dine in the restaurant or order home-delivered pizza online. Treat someone to a Domino's gift card today.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because everyone loves sharing their favorite slice of pizza with someone they love. For example, those who have lost a loved one may sometimes permit themselves a little comfort and companionship. In such a circumstance, a meal shared is a true and lasting kindness. If the deceased was a breadwinner, the bereaved may be watching the wallet. Enable this person you love to grab a meal - wherever s/he is.
What To Express in Your Card: Please have something to eat.

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Join your neighbors at Applebee's for delicious food, friendly service, and a hometown atmosphere that cannot be beat. From American classics like Applebee's House Sirloin to signature dishes like their Fiesta Lime Chicken, Applebee's is the go-to place for great food and good times.
Why We Love This Gift: Applebee's is suitable for any occasion. Situations in which a meal is a good choice include military spouses coping with a deployed spouse. Buy them a meal to let them know you are thinking of them. Or, those who have lost a loved one may sometimes permit themselves a little comfort and companionship. In such a circumstance, a meal shared is a true and lasting kindness. If the deceased was a breadwinner, the bereaved may be watching the wallet. Enable this person you love to grab a meal - wherever s/he is.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you.

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Italian Generosity is always on the table.  At Olive Garden, we know that life is better together and everyone is happiest when they're with family. From never ending servings of our freshly baked breadsticks and iconic garden salad, to our homemade soups and sauces, there's something for everyone to enjoy.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking so much about you. Please take a few minutes to get something to eat and drink - on me.

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Olive Garden offers an award-winning wine list and a range of delicious Italian dishes inspired by the Culinary Institute of Tuscany in Italy.

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Since 1971, Starbucks Coffee Company has been committed to ethically sourcing and roasting the highest quality arabica coffee in the world. Today, with stores around the globe, the company is the premier roaster and retailer of specialty coffee in the world.
Why We Love This Gift: Because it is coffee. We love this gift for that reason, but also because coffee (and tea) can facilitate conversation. People stop and talk over coffee and tea. Barista-made cups of coffee or steaming cups of hot tea are among life's "little" indulgences - the kind of thing that lifts people up. They are also among the first things people slash from tight budgets. Help them put it back. This gift is suitable for anyone to whom you want to express concern, consideration, or love. Also, here is a hot tip: teenagers love Starbucks. It is a great gift for a teenager.
What to Express in Your Card: I was just thinking about you as you grapple with recent events. I hope you will take a break and enjoy a cup of coffee - I know you are a latte fan. Maybe we can even meet for a cup? I'd love to know how you are doing and what I can do to be helpful. I send you lots of love.

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Since 1971, Starbucks Coffee Company has been committed to ethically sourcing and roasting the highest quality arabica coffee in the world. Today, with stores around the globe, the company is the premier roaster and retailer of specialty coffee in the world.

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Setting up a food train is one of the best ways to help support someone you love. Here are some tips on how to give groceries as a gift.

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The holiday season is a popular time to sponsor a family. Whether contributing as a household, team, congregation, or individual, people work with local organizations to identify and connect with families in need. Sponsoring a family entails fulfilling a wish list or providing food, funds, and necessities to ensure a special season for them. Manage [&hellip;]

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