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Founded by four busy parents, UrbanSitter is an online resource where parents can find and book babysitters recommended by people they know. Looking for the occasional sitter, full-time nanny, or last-minute help? UrbanSitter will find available sitters--and show you the ones recommended by parents in your social circles (mothers' group, child's school, sports team, etc). Search sitters by date and time, book jobs, and even pay online--it's quick, easy and efficient. UrbanSitter gift cards are deliverable instantly by email or you can print it at home. To ensure that your recipient lives in an area where UrbanSitter operates, click <a href="https://blog.urbansitter.com/urbansitter-is-expanding/">here</a>.
Why We Love This Gift: Childcare is expensive. It is a true budget-buster. These cards allow busy parents to select a babysitter with whom they are comfortable.Anyone with a child will sometimes need a babysitter. UrbanSitter allows parents to make arrangements for the care of their children as they respond to whatever they must. It allows them to make an arrangement wherein they don't feel indebted or obligated to reciprocate. For a bereaved parent, space to mourn is important. Similarly, unemployed parents are stressed and they need to time update a c.v. and prepare to interview. Further, spouses of the deployed face multiple stressors every day. Give them some time off by providing them with some childcare.
What to Express in Your Card: You have a lot on your plate. I was thinking of you. I figured you might need some time to deal with [situation]. I thought you might need some coverage with [name of child/ren]. I hope this helps. I am sending you love.
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This e-gift card allows access to all Walmart products. Useful for anyone anywhere.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it offers access to things like pharmacies when a family you love is in need. Many aspects of surgical care are not covered by insurance - these expenses can add up. This is especially true when a family is on a fixed income. Items like canes, walkers, surgical gauze, and more - can all be underwritten in this way. (Bonus: It respects, as well, the privacy and dignity of the person you love). Supplements that are doctor recommended (always check) can also be covered in this manner. Walmart also just has everything so for someone who has lost their job it enables them to get what they need without spelling it all out. People are proud.
What To Express in Your Card: You'd do exactly the same. xo

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Give anyone you love a ride, anywhere.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it affords people the opportunity to get around. Safely. We love that. For people who are in treatment and too sick to get home from the doctor, to people who are no longer comfortable driving at night, this gift empowers people.
What To Express In Your Card: I know that transport can be complicated. I wanted to make sure that you could get around easily. I wish I were there to do this myself - but in case you need this as a convenience on your terms - here you are! Sending love.
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Teamotions teas are unlike any you've had before. Crafted for your emotional well-being, each blend is specially formulated to have unique mental, physical, and emotional benefits. We have created the only line of teas that nurture every part of you.
Blended with adaptogens, safe and effective herbs that restore balance, increase inner strength, and improve your body's resistance to stress, a simple cup of tea becomes a powerful well-being tool.
We have taken great care in creating teas that are as beautiful and delicious as they are effective, inviting you into a meaningful daily ritual of self-care. Each one of our well-being blends contains only whole leaf tea, responsibly sourced herbs, and all-natural flavors. Every ingredient is inspected by hand, blended in small batches, and packaged with care. From tin to cup, every step of your Teamotions experience will comfort and inspire you.
We are honored to provide the finest product possible for your well-being. We invite you to use Teamotions teas daily to take better care of yourself with every sip.
Why We Love This Gift: This line of teas was founded by a baby-bereaved mom who is also a military wife. This tea reflects the wisdom that grows out of grief and uncertainty. It's also just delicious.
What To Express In Your Card: I'd love to share a cup of tea with you in person or even via Skype - I really want to know how you are doing and what I can do help, even if it's simply listening. I'm sending you so much love.

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Everyone loves a clean house. That's about all there is to say about that.
Why We Love This Gift:  This gift is a terrific one for anyone anywhere. Absolute convenience and versatility. (And such a gift). There are so many ways in which this gift works for everyone. In a medical crisis, for example, an orderly house is critical especially if treatment renders someone immune-compromised. For a single parent trying to keep up with things a clean house can be a major stress buster. Seniors living alone could often use a little help in the deep clean department.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you. How can I be most helpful?
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Via Apple: If the computer were invented today, what would it look like? It would be powerful enough for any task. So mobile you could take it everywhere. And so intuitive you could use it any way you wanted -- with touch, a keyboard, or even a pencil. In other words, it wouldn't really be a "computer." It would be iPad.
Starting at $329
Why We Love This Gift: Whether it's for a grandparent that could use help keeping in touch, a sick kid stuck in the hospital or a mom that has found herself on bedrest, an iPad makes a perfect gift for staying connected or beating boredom.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I thought that this might come in handy.
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Petco is a leading pet specialty retailer carrying more than 10,000 different pet-related products. With more than 1,100 stores in all 50 states, Petco provides the products, services (grooming, boarding), and advice that make it easier for customers to be great pet parents.
Why We Love This Gift: Pets can be so expensive. But so too are they adored. Help a loved one in a pinch by providing necessary food or other pet-related items. This includes grooming and boarding services in many areas - a major help to those in need.
What To Express In Your Card: I know how you have relied on [name of pet] over the course of the last few years. What an ally. I hope this helps to pay for some of the stuff I know you like that sweetie to have. Thinking of you.

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<a href="https://instacart.oloiyb.net/c/1246143/413183/7412" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instacart</a> is a grocery delivery service that delivers in as little as an hour. They connect you with Personal Shoppers in your area who pick up and deliver your groceries from your favorite local stores.
Why We Love This Gift: Shopping for groceries is a chore under the best of circumstances. For families facing a new lift event or crisis, it is very often incredibly stressful. The gift of a cupboard full of basic necessities is tremendous. It is a wonderful way to remind those you love that you have not forgotten the day-to-day challenges they face. You are telling them in no uncertain terms that they are not alone.
What to Express in Your Card: I was thinking about the things you have to get done every day. I hope you'll let me help a little by giving me a chance to buy you some groceries - and have them delivered to you. Just one lest task for you to worry about. I send you my love.

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Give the gift of take-out. Seriously, the perfect gift for any situation.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it is take-out and everyone loves take-out. It gives your recipient the flexibility to order exactly what they want, when they want it. Pregnancy cravings are no joke. Neither is the stress level of a single parent on a school night. Young professionals who get sick often hate the loss of their own agency. The capacity to choose one's own dinner is not to be underestimated. Nothing says I love you like Pad Thai.
What To Express in Your Card: I wanted you to be able to choose your own meal. I am thinking of you!

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When children have to go to the hospital, it can be a hard time for them and their parents. Simple text and color photographs give parents and children the opportunity to talk through some of the feelings that may arise during a child's first hospital stay. Mr. Rogers describes what happens during a stay in the hospital, including some of the common forms of medical treatment. In his reassuring manner, Mr. Rogers explains what to expect only the way he can.
Why We Love This Gift: We love it because Mr. Rogers removes all fear and trepidation - as only Mr. Rogers can. Extraordinarily reassuring, this is a must have for parents and children alike.
What To Express In Your Card: You know what else? You sometimes get ice cream when you wake up after the doctors fixes you! Can I have a little spoonful? Sending love, you brave kid!

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Available for delicious take-out (pick up only), family-owned <a href="https://cinnamoncuisine.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Cinnamon Indian restaurant</a> is the go-to destination for Hudson Valley residents craving curry. As <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/15/world/coronavirus-live.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">temporary regulations</a> pertaining to Covid-19/Coronavirus mean that the option to dine in is suspended in many states, both curbside pick-up and delivery are now offered at Cinnamon. 
Gift certificates are available in any denomination. (Gift certificates are a great way to support local businesses during the Coronavirus crisis.)  You may call Cinnamon during normal business hours and provide your credit card information to benefit a designated recipient. Their telephone number is 845-876-7510. Your recipient will be able to schedule and redeem at their convenience.

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Every office needs supplies. (So do homes - for school projects, toner, and an emergency glue stick stash). Make sure to cover the needs of your favorite office or home office.
Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it's the little expenses that kill you. Science fair materials add up. A beloved charitable organization can put more into program when they have enough ink toner, copy paper, and more. So lend a hand and send a card. A gift card is a great way to cover the needs of a small local  organization. Think also of classroom teachers who buy their own school supplies to cover kids in their classes who don't have enough. Members of the editorial staff of Give InKind are married to teachers and we assure you - this is a thing.
What To Express in Your Card: I thought this would come in handy. Thanks for all you do.

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Setting up a food train is one of the best ways to help support someone you love. Here are some tips on how to give groceries as a gift.

How to Give Groceries as a Gift for a Meal Train

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Helping loved ones recover after surgery is difficult. Visit Give InKind for concrete suggestions and a new way to schedule meals and support to those in need of help.

How To Support Loved Ones Post-Op

Post op recovery is difficult. Visit Give InKind for specific suggestions and a new way to schedule meals and assistance in times of need.

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Author Pamela Stockwell shares her experience becoming a living organ donor for a fellow writer, whom she's never even met in-person!

"My Kidney's Going to California!" A Living Organ Donor Story

One year ago this month, in March 2021, my daughter and I drove to South Carolina to see my dad. At one point, she was driving, so I checked Facebook to while away the time and I see that my friend and fellow writer Kelly Hartog had posted a plea for a kidney. I knew &hellip; Continue reading "My Kidney&#8217;s Going to California!"

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