On 12/2/24, my dad, John, went in for a biopsy for an irregular area in his throat. Unfortunately, the biopsy showed throat cancer. The doctors were optimistic about surgical options and we all agreed to band together for whatever was necessary. 

The same day, COMPLETELY UNRELATED, a previous stent in his leg failed, leading to a potentially life threatening blood clot. He was admitted to the hospital where every attempt was made to break up the clot and save his leg. Despite the best efforts of all the lovely staff at Jefferson Hospital, the damage due to lack of blood flow was too severe to overcome and on 12/13/24 he had his left leg amputated below the knee. The surgery went well and he has been recovering in Magee Rehabilitation Center, with a planned discharge date of next week. 

If you know my dad, you know he’s the type to give help, not take it. So many folks have reached out asking how they can help, what they can do, if there is a fundraiser, etc. We are very fortunate in that the thing we need most is time. Time for appointments, time for mental health, time for planning and looking at the steps going forward. My mom, Re, ok’d me setting up a meal train to help gift her back the time of figuring out what to do for meals on the long days of appointments and visiting at the rehab. 

We have dozens of visits coming up over the next few months with rechecks, prosthetic fittings, intensive physical rehab visits, etc. And we still need to address the cancer diagnosis as well. We hope to have a better idea of the plan going forward over the next few weeks. 

We all greatly appreciate everyone reaching out, thinking of us, checking in. Nothing is expected in any way, shape, or form but so many have asked to help and this seems like the best way. 

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Mary Beth

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With your favorite restaurants at your fingertips, DoorDash satisfies your cravings and connects you with possibilities -- more time and energy for yourself and those you love.
Why We Love This Gift: In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo

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Give the gift of take-out. Seriously, the perfect gift for any situation.
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The digital Visa gift card is another convenient option for supporting someone when they need it most. It allows the recipient to select their own essentials or gifts from a wide range of merchants. The card will be emailed to your recipient’s inbox and is for online or by phone use only. It’s a thoughtful way to show your support and let them know you’re there for them.
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Chipotle offers a focused menu of burritos, tacos, burrito bowls, and salads made from fresh, high-quality raw ingredients, prepared using classic cooking methods and served in a distinctive atmosphere.
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What To Express In Your Card: Please, treat yourself to coffee and donuts. You deserve it.

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What To Say In Your Card: Please eat something. I am thinking about you.

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Panera Bread is committed to providing great-tasting, quality food that people can trust.
Highlighted by antibiotic-free chicken, whole grain bread, select organic and all-natural ingredients, and a menu free of man-made trans-fat, Panera is committed to providing great tasting quality food people can trust.
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The Darden&reg; Restaurants Gift Card provides 9 distinguished and diverse restaurants on one card.  From Olive Garden's never-ending servings of our freshly baked breadsticks and iconic garden fresh salad to fresh, boldly seasoned and expertly grilled steaks - like the signature bone-in Outlaw Ribeye&reg; at LongHorn Steakhouse, we have one card with all your favorites.    Darden&reg; Restaurants Gift Card can be redeemed at any Olive Garden&reg;, LongHorn Steakhouse&reg;, Yard House&reg;, Ruth's Chris&reg; Steak House, Cheddar's Scratch Kitchen&reg;, The Capital Grille, Seasons 52&reg;, Eddie V's and Bahama Breeze&reg; restaurants in the U.S.  Gift Cards can be redeemed for Online To Go, Catering and Dine-In meals.
What To Express In Your Card: I am thinking about you so much. Please, take a few minutes and get something to eat and drink on me.

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Great food comes first. Every day, more than 11 million guests visit Burger King restaurants around the world, and they do so because their restaurants are known for serving high-quality, great-tasting, fairly priced food.
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Papa John's gift cards can be given to anyone who loves great pizza. Papa John's Gift Cards never expire.
Why We Love This Gift: Pizza is the perfect meal to share with the people you love. Because...who doesn't love pizza?
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Setting up a food train is one of the best ways to help support someone you love. Here are some tips on how to give groceries as a gift.

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